Please help me to cheer up my friend Katani (71)
sweetowen: Hello all. I met Katani about a year ago on CS. At that time, she was on here under another name. We grew to be very good, close friends on here & over the phone.
She was fortunate to meet the love of her life a while back & marry him. They had a few wonderful months together before cancer took him away from her. She's been trying to be upbeat & cheerful, because she knows that's what he wanted from her. But she's really having a difficult time of it.
I'm asking you to say hi & maybe crack a joke or something... try to keep her spirits up. She's really down & needs friends rallying around her at this time. She's really a special lady who's been there for me when I've really needed her. Please help me to be there for her at this most difficult time.
Katie, love you girlfriend!!
hi sweetowen sorry to hear of your friends loss , my heart goes out to her , in time things will get better , katani will be well with such a dear friend by her side ,She was fortunate to meet the love of her life a while back & marry him. They had a few wonderful months together before cancer took him away from her. She's been trying to be upbeat & cheerful, because she knows that's what he wanted from her. But she's really having a difficult time of it.
I'm asking you to say hi & maybe crack a joke or something... try to keep her spirits up. She's really down & needs friends rallying around her at this time. She's really a special lady who's been there for me when I've really needed her. Please help me to be there for her at this most difficult time.
Katie, love you girlfriend!!
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Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I only know some lame kids jokes..but here ya go.
what did the zero say the eight? nice waist line
what did the ocean say to the beach? nothing it waved...
what do you call it when peanut butter and jam meet in an intersection? ...traffic jam.
I know they're lame but still kinda funny. Best wishes to Katie
what did the zero say the eight? nice waist line
what did the ocean say to the beach? nothing it waved...
what do you call it when peanut butter and jam meet in an intersection? ...traffic jam.
I know they're lame but still kinda funny. Best wishes to Katie
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Hi Sweet Owen and Katina, of Kagina, Its all the same thing
Just start a New List for Christmas, and Put me on there,
Honestly in deepest Sympathy, Tho I have been in need of a Smile too, So when you cant find one, Look Up
My Phone number!
Cheer Up, as we all must live our purpose, and there is allways a Reason!!!!!
But most of us dont understand his whole plan!
Get Well Soon!..... Larry!
Just start a New List for Christmas, and Put me on there,
Honestly in deepest Sympathy, Tho I have been in need of a Smile too, So when you cant find one, Look Up
My Phone number!
Cheer Up, as we all must live our purpose, and there is allways a Reason!!!!!
But most of us dont understand his whole plan!
Get Well Soon!..... Larry!
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Jokes
If I had 2 Girlfriends, I wouldnt Need One
wait, That wasnt a Joke!
It was the Truth!
Hi Sweet Owen, Nice of you to help your Friend!
If I had 2 Girlfriends, I wouldnt Need One
wait, That wasnt a Joke!
It was the Truth! Hi Sweet Owen, Nice of you to help your Friend!
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Katani, sweet, precious lady. From what I've read of sweetowen's post here, I can tell you were a LOVE at a perfect time, in a perfect place, of an eternal LOVE.
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Thank you all. This is one of the kindest, most loving women I know. I wish I could just hop a plane & go down to visit her. But as fate would have it, I can't right now. Please help me to cheer her up. He loved her with all his heart.
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sweetowen: Thank you all. This is one of the kindest, most loving women I know. I wish I could just hop a plane & go down to visit her. But as fate would have it, I can't right now. Please help me to cheer her up. He loved her with all his heart.
thankyou so much sweet! your very kind yes, i met the love of my life and we were married 5 months when colin cancer took him, but he put alot of joy in my life and yes, im very down and cry alot...hes in NO more pain,but now i am.
i miss him so much it hurts, and really its still fresh to my heart, he passed away nov 11th just a few weeks ago. i will never get over him. he was so good to me. thanks for the cheering, i need this cause i sit by myself and cry alot, and a little depressed and i know he wouldnt want that. thanks for all of you that posted------ This thread is Archived ------
KATANI: thankyou so much sweet! your very kind
yes, i met the love of my life and we were married 5 months when colin cancer took him, but he put alot of joy in my life and yes, im very down and cry alot...hes in NO more pain,but now i am. i miss him so much it hurts, and really its still fresh to my heart, he passed away nov 11th just a few weeks ago. i will never get over him. he was so good to me. thanks for the cheering, i need this cause i sit by myself and cry alot, and a little depressed and i know he wouldnt want that. thanks for all of you that posted
yes, i met the love of my life and we were married 5 months when colin cancer took him, but he put alot of joy in my life and yes, im very down and cry alot...hes in NO more pain,but now i am. i miss him so much it hurts, and really its still fresh to my heart, he passed away nov 11th just a few weeks ago. i will never get over him. he was so good to me. thanks for the cheering, i need this cause i sit by myself and cry alot, and a little depressed and i know he wouldnt want that. thanks for all of you that posted
You are with a small select group of posters on CS. There are several of us who have lost someone very dear to us. Your lost is new and just happened. Allow yourself to be sad. Allow yourself to cry. Seek out friends and family. Get out of the house and don't stay there all the time. Get involved with something/anything. Join a gym or go for walks, bike rides or jog. Seek out a grief support group--then go to a couple of them.
Good luck. Write if you want someone to talk with that has been through it.
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I don't know you but feel your pain. I hope the road ahead for you is not too long and bumpy........
Knock, Knock .....
Knock, Knock .....
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hi katani big hug of comfort goes out to you
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Big_John: You are with a small select group of posters on CS. There are several of us who have lost someone very dear to us. Your lost is new and just happened. Allow yourself to be sad. Allow yourself to cry. Seek out friends and family. Get out of the house and don't stay there all the time. Get involved with something/anything. Join a gym or go for walks, bike rides or jog. Seek out a grief support group--then go to a couple of them.
Good luck. Write if you want someone to talk with that has been through it.
thanks big john. these words meant alot, and yes im sure there are alot of people who have been through this too. i am usually the one to say to them," oh im so sorry,dont know what to say", but now its me! this is the hardest thing i have ever been through in my life. we were very much in loveGood luck. Write if you want someone to talk with that has been through it.
we were very good for each other. so yes im hurting, hes in no more pain, but i am, and i need one of those groups bad, cause i feel my self getting very low. thanks again for the reply, it means alot------ This thread is Archived ------
RDM59: I don't know you but feel your pain. I hope the road ahead for you is not too long and bumpy........ Knock, Knock .....
thanks so much. i use to be here a while back, just an oldie here lol------ This thread is Archived ------
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Dawn7z: hi katani big hug of comfort goes out to you
hey dawn! i remember you hun! thanks for the hug im hurting pretty bad
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hi katani
i feel for u i really do
i lost my brother in july and my dad 1st nov
there's nothing that can be said that will make u feel better
so here's a hug
i feel for u i really do
i lost my brother in july and my dad 1st nov
there's nothing that can be said that will make u feel better
so here's a hug
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scorpiosiren: hi katani
i feel for u i really do
i lost my brother in july and my dad 1st nov
there's nothing that can be said that will make u feel better
so here's a hug
aawww here's a hugi feel for u i really do
i lost my brother in july and my dad 1st nov
there's nothing that can be said that will make u feel better
so here's a hug
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KATANI: aawww here's a hug back to you. and your right, there's really no words. my husband was my everything. thanks
thank u
i try to take comfort in the fact my dad is outta pain and my brother isnt stressed no more but i still want them here with me its a tough road ahead but with ur friends n family around u to help n support u im sure u'll do ok
heartfelt sympathy to u
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scorpiosiren: thank u
i try to take comfort in the fact my dad is outta pain and my brother isnt stressed no more but i still want them here with me its a tough road ahead but with ur friends n family around u to help n support u im sure u'll do ok
heartfelt sympathy to u
thanku for that tooi try to take comfort in the fact my dad is outta pain and my brother isnt stressed no more but i still want them here with me its a tough road ahead but with ur friends n family around u to help n support u im sure u'll do ok
heartfelt sympathy to u
yes, my hubby is out of pain now and im glad for that, cause he suffered so badly. i also had to be up with him and in the end we had him on hospice, and the nurses were super great to us! but i hurt and am grieving so, and having alot of anxiety. hope you continue to do well. i will be here for you also, and sympathy to you sweetie
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I remember you Katani and glad that you found true love. And very sorry to hear of his passing. May you find some comfort in your friends here. 
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She was fortunate to meet the love of her life a while back & marry him. They had a few wonderful months together before cancer took him away from her. She's been trying to be upbeat & cheerful, because she knows that's what he wanted from her. But she's really having a difficult time of it.
I'm asking you to say hi & maybe crack a joke or something... try to keep her spirits up. She's really down & needs friends rallying around her at this time. She's really a special lady who's been there for me when I've really needed her. Please help me to be there for her at this most difficult time.
Katie, love you girlfriend!!