Genuinelass1OPNorth shore, Auckland New Zealand71 posts
Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore? What is wrong with me? Have I been on my own too long?
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore? What is wrong with me? Have I been on my own too long?
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too
Self-preservation, it sounds like to me. You are trying to protect yourself from being vulnerable and getting hurt. Thing is what you seek will probably not be found without taking some risks....
Have your wits about you, yes, there are some strange ones out there. But don't deny yourself the possibility of some wonderful opportunities?
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore? What is wrong with me? Have I been on my own too long?
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too
You need eyes and ears and a mouth.
Get a pic.
Quit whining - either you are drop dead gorgeous or drop dead ugly........... but, for God's sake, quit whining, dammit!
Have you been on your own too long?
That depends......... if you really are a whining person then maybe not quite long enough!
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore? What is wrong with me? Have I been on my own too long?
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too
Hi there
your profile says looking for friends/hangout....if i saw this i would think (rightly or otherwise) that dating was out...and would move on.....
and regarding the long term dating......i know what you mean........my last relationship ended after 6 weeks.....but hang on in there....mr right could be just around the corner...
Only you can really figure out why you are scared of a real lasting relationship. Guessing would be just a guess! If the right man has come into your life and you tossed him aside, then you have an issue that needs help from your friends that know you.
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What is wrong with me?
Have I been on my own too long?
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too