On the Shelf too long? ( Archived) (8)

Dec 17, 2009 4:55 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
Genuinelass1
Genuinelass1Genuinelass1North shore, Auckland New Zealand14 Threads 71 Posts
Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore?
What is wrong with me?
Have I been on my own too long?wave

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too
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Dec 17, 2009 5:13 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore?
What is wrong with me?
Have I been on my own too long?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too


Self-preservation, it sounds like to me. You are trying to protect yourself from being vulnerable and getting hurt. Thing is what you seek will probably not be found without taking some risks....

Have your wits about you, yes, there are some strange ones out there. But don't deny yourself the possibility of some wonderful opportunities?

Good luck to you!! bouquet
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Dec 17, 2009 5:18 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore?
What is wrong with me?
Have I been on my own too long?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too


You need eyes and ears and a mouth.

Get a pic.

Quit whining - either you are drop dead gorgeous or drop dead ugly........... but, for God's sake, quit whining, dammit!

Have you been on your own too long?

That depends......... if you really are a whining person then maybe not quite long enough!

hug
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Dec 17, 2009 5:19 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
stevepoppy
stevepoppystevepoppyDonegal, Galway Ireland56 Threads 2 Polls 732 Posts
Genuinelass1: Hi, I've been on lots of dates and met a few nice guys, however they are either not interested in me or I just can't be bothered going through with long term dating thing with them, when we do work out , I find I look for a reason to not see them anymore?
What is wrong with me?
Have I been on my own too long?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all too


Hi therehandshake

your profile says looking for friends/hangout....if i saw this i would think (rightly or otherwise) that dating was out...and would move on.....

and regarding the long term dating......i know what you mean........my last relationship ended after 6 weeks.....but hang on in there....mr right could be just around the corner...

teddybear hug
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Dec 17, 2009 7:01 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
Genuinelass1
Genuinelass1Genuinelass1North shore, Auckland New Zealand14 Threads 71 Posts
Hey, not whining here Matey.
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Dec 17, 2009 8:00 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
You are on the shelf too long if you suddenly discover that you have cobwebs.
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Dec 17, 2009 8:21 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
Genuinelass1
Genuinelass1Genuinelass1North shore, Auckland New Zealand14 Threads 71 Posts
haha I like it, dust too :)
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Dec 17, 2009 8:25 PM CST On the Shelf too long?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Only you can really figure out why you are scared of a real lasting relationship. Guessing would be just a guess! If the right man has come into your life and you tossed him aside, then you have an issue that needs help from your friends that know you.
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