few Takers so far what to do ( Archived) (4)

Hi yall, As far as I can tell there are very few women on here who actually mean what they say. I mean or I am hideous chudd of a guy lol which I know i'm not I've been told I am baby faced but I digress. I'm finding that most of the women that say they want an honest man who is not a lier or cheater that they don't go for any true honesty.. like I have an unstabel job but I got my own place and land and i'm not a lier or a cheater. I want to get to know them but they seem to not want to get to know me.. maybe I'm approaching them wrong or maybe I'm not mister money bags but what ever the case I've only been written back by a few a very few women and I've not been approached by a single one that was my age I've had to approach them and strike up a conversation which is hard for me because i'm well a little soft and shy and don't like to bother women because guys online could be a nutter bar lol you know. so what do I do to get a better reaction I'm not going to lie and make promisses that I don't intend to keep so thats out lol.. and I'm not about to just hit on every girl on here thats just rude so far I've only contacted women I've thought were very close to what I'm all about and thought I might hit it off with.. I don't know what a woman wants these days I know lots of gals who are with total losers lol not that I'm a bag of success but I'm not a dope head or a guy who just wants to knock boots and that seems to be what the girls around my area go for and they think they are going change these guys lol which is a big joke and most of these guys are my buds from school or work and they cheat on their women all the time and (the dumb women )sorry bout that but its true go back to them which is why I got online to look in the first place. what is a good way to get some attention on here from women who want a nice guy who has a lot of passion and heart.

"that but its true go back to them which is why I got online to look in the first place. what is a good way to get some attention on here from women who want a nice guy who has a lot of passion and heart."

Answer.
Assuming women want a nice guy. ?

(Whew, I had a hard time copying and pasting this bit, not knowing where one sentence ends and another one starts )

I'd say that is normal. They may feel you're not compatible due to MANY reasons, it may have nothing to do with $$$ or whatever else you're assuming.

Personally I do the same - I do reply to most everyone (except obvious scammers or ones that write a one-liner (or should I say a one-worder?) e.g. 'hi', but I reserve the right to not continue corresponding with them if they don't appear to be what could be compatible with or interesting to me. I believe it's just normal selection process, like with sending out CV's (sorry, 'resumes' for you Americans!), you know...

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