irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
yes it can get heated sometimes,thats because some statements are just silly ,and people dont want 2 be wrong
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
Not really just yet - newbie but great fun watching!!!!!
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
who doesn`t??
its a sign of passion so they say.... only lost the rag once in here? i think?? pacifist at heart, don`t see the point in it if its just personally tit for tat name callin... if its a heated debate that another thing...jmo
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
yes it happens, especially if it is a topic that is close to you, have been guilty of it myself on occasion lol.
The thing is to try and discuss or debate something without taking things personally or making personal attacks. And yes again I have been guilty of to.
we all have different experiences and opinions and could learn alot if we were more tolerent of each other.
Kalimera: yes it happens, especially if it is a topic that is close to you, have been guilty of it myself on occasion lol.The thing is to try and discuss or debate something without taking things personally or making personal attacks. And yes again I have been guilty of to.we all have different experiences and opinions and could learn alot if we were more tolerent of each other.
In response to: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
Well, Ive found myself in a lot of trouble on the Anerican threads. One guy reported me, I dont think he gets my humour. I just speak my mind but it doesnt seem to be politically correct. Most of the time, Im having the crack but I guess everybody's different. I'm actually quite a civilised person but maybe I speak my mind too much
irishgirl36: Well, Ive found myself in a lot of trouble on the Anerican threads. One guy reported me, I dont think he gets my humour. I just speak my mind but it doesnt seem to be politically correct. Most of the time, Im having the crack but I guess everybody's different. I'm actually quite a civilised person but maybe I speak my mind too much
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
Ah yeah we all do you just have to learn to not take it personally and remember just because its your opinion doesnt mean its always right and it doesnt have to be the same as everyone elses.
Oh and remember there are people on here just to start arguments just for the fun of it - they are not here for friendship or romance their only purpose is to start fights, so sometimes ya have to ask yourself is it real or fake before ya jump in feet first
And when I mention you above Im not talking about you personally its just a general statement.
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
Kalimera: yes it happens, especially if it is a topic that is close to you, have been guilty of it myself on occasion lol.The thing is to try and discuss or debate something without taking things personally or making personal attacks. And yes again I have been guilty of to.we all have different experiences and opinions and could learn alot if we were more tolerent of each other.
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Thanks Kalimera, you always make sense. I think Ive to be careful in my wording but one guy was offensive himself and I think I just let rip.
ladylumps: Ah yeah we all do you just have to learn to not take it personally and remember just because its your opinion doesnt mean its always right and it doesnt have to be the same as everyone elses.
Oh and remember there are people on here just to start arguments just for the fun of it - they are not here for friendship or romance their only purpose is to start fights, so sometimes ya have to ask yourself is it real or fake before ya jump in feet first
And when I mention you above Im not talking about you personally its just a general statement.
Thanks Kalimera, you always make sense. I think Ive to be careful in my wording but one guy was offensive himself and I think I just let rip.
Can I quote you to my kids on that lol
The intl forums can be different in that you get ppl from all over on them, for some English is not their first language, in some cases it is that they are not use to women speaking their minds lol
But as I said previously tolerence might be the key.
In response to: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
I dont thgink i have been involved in any arguements Ever on here......I am far too timid for that.
The intl forums can be different in that you get ppl from all over on them, for some English is not their first language, in some cases it is that they are not use to women speaking their minds lol
But as I said previously tolerence might be the key.
Ya, youre right. And ya, some of the guys not used to women speaking their minds, not all, SOME but thanks Kalimera and you most definitely can quote me to your kids. Its the truth
I get very emotionally involved with most of the forums on here and quite often get upset with the way people treat each other ... I try my best to avoid them threads where all the busy bodies with low morals seem to congregate and even sometimes have wished to inflict physical harm but then remember that im a grown up and thats wrong ..
so i bide my time and build up profiles of everyone i dislike ...
When im released next week i hope to maybe call around to some people
irishgirl36: Hi, I guess Im a fairly opinionated person and it has caused me a lot of heated arguments on the forums. Does anyone else have this experience?
Yep. Sometimes I just shoot first and ask questions/apologise later.
Tis human nature to defend oneself or another if needs be.
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