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I hate that on the computer, people judge you off your picture (but as those of us that meet up in our cities would know, people often tell us we don't really look like our pictures) and then there is the phone were people generally generate a picture in their head before meeting you. I haven't tried speed dating. But do you know what I've noticed the most? When you meet someone the old fasioned way you not only know if the spark is there or not but their personality changes their looks as you get to know them. When you get to know someone the other ways, it doesn't leave any room for that change to take place.
Has anybody else noticed this??????