Today's Dating (22)

Jan 13, 2010 6:06 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
We (my friends and I) were talking about the different ways of the dating scene. During this talk I mentioned that I'm so over the new way of dating. When asked why I simply said:
I hate that on the computer, people judge you off your picture (but as those of us that meet up in our cities would know, people often tell us we don't really look like our pictures) and then there is the phone were people generally generate a picture in their head before meeting you. I haven't tried speed dating. But do you know what I've noticed the most? When you meet someone the old fasioned way you not only know if the spark is there or not but their personality changes their looks as you get to know them. When you get to know someone the other ways, it doesn't leave any room for that change to take place.
Has anybody else noticed this?????? dunno
Jan 13, 2010 6:10 AM CST Today's Dating
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Yes agreed, no way can a net meet replace a real life meet. It needs face to face contact for sure! Just never meet near a gas factory, coz if there's sparks then CABOOOOM! laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:11 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Larf75: We (my friends and I) were talking about the different ways of the dating scene. During this talk I mentioned that I'm so over the new way of dating. When asked why I simply said:
I hate that on the computer, people judge you off your picture (but as those of us that meet up in our cities would know, people often tell us we don't really look like our pictures) and then there is the phone were people generally generate a picture in their head before meeting you. I haven't tried speed dating. But do you know what I've noticed the most? When you meet someone the old fasioned way you not only know if the spark is there or not but their personality changes their looks as you get to know them. When you get to know someone the other ways, it doesn't leave any room for that change to take place.
Has anybody else noticed this??????


Totally agree also.. so when are we going out again so we can get a spark?laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:14 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
Just name the date hunny and I'll be there. yay hug cheers cheers hug
Jan 13, 2010 6:15 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Larf75: Just name the date hunny and I'll be there.



wink Still have to organise a bendigo one that suits most people!!


How have u been?
Jan 13, 2010 6:17 AM CST Today's Dating
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Lou30: Still have to organise a bendigo one that suits most people!! How have u been?


Why not melbourne city lol yes im being selfish in nearness to me rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 13, 2010 6:19 AM CST Today's Dating
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Hi hon you are so right! hate this way of finding some one... nothing is as it seems anymore,Oh give Ralf a big kiss from me, wrote to the mods again a few days ago to get her back on but they never reply.Miss her.

ni night.xxx hug
Jan 13, 2010 6:20 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
They have meets, I believe u just don't wanna join!
Jan 13, 2010 6:20 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
I have been flat tackers. I think I'm getting crook from pushing the limits. I'm still in the land of the living. What about you? Been behaving? I hope not. he,he.
Jan 13, 2010 6:22 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
Don't panic. If you can get out our way we will be caring it together. I'm sure someone will fit you in. There's still room in my boot. rolling on the floor laughing Just kidding.
Jan 13, 2010 6:23 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
Hi hon you are so right! hate this way of finding some one... nothing is as it seems anymore,Oh give Ralf a big kiss from me, wrote to the mods again a few days ago to get her back on but they never reply.Miss her.

ni night.xxx[/quote

wave Martia. I shall do. Thanks.
Jan 13, 2010 6:24 AM CST Today's Dating
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Lou30: They have meets, I believe u just don't wanna join!


Eh who you guys talking to? confused laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:25 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Larf75: I have been flat tackers. I think I'm getting crook from pushing the limits. I'm still in the land of the living. What about you? Been behaving? I hope not. he,he.



behaving? unfortunately yes I have laugh This weekend tells another story though LOL

U need some time out by the sound of it! U and Ralfy should head to the country for some nice fresh country air.. hint hint! laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:27 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
LoveableOne: Eh who you guys talking to?


Sorry. The boot comment was to you. I forgot to quote.
Jan 13, 2010 6:29 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
Lou30: behaving? unfortunately yes I have This weekend tells another story though LOL

U need some time out by the sound of it! U and Ralfy should head to the country for some nice fresh country air.. hint hint!


I would come and visit you in a heartbeat. Just hard to get any time off work at the moment. We should organise that soon. I could do with another midnight swim. At least it's summer now.laugh laugh laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:35 AM CST Today's Dating
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Larf75: Sorry. The boot comment was to you. I forgot to quote.


And that's a no no in these here forums! uncertain


rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 13, 2010 6:35 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Larf75: I would come and visit you in a heartbeat. Just hard to get any time off work at the moment. We should organise that soon. I could do with another midnight swim. At least it's summer now.



Every single day I have to drive past that motel and I think of it.. haha I have taken up swimming in pool of the motel across the road from the one we stay at.. but I only do it in the summer too laugh


In regards to time off, gosh love you look ill..really pale and rundown..not to mention that god awful cough you have goin on...sicky!! angel
Jan 13, 2010 6:39 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
LoveableOne: Eh who you guys talking to?


I was talkin to you too.. Last time I saw a thread where the ladies were meeting up, u chatted in the thread but never said anything about wanting to join them dunno U should have went! laugh
Jan 13, 2010 6:42 AM CST Today's Dating
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
Lou30: I was talkin to you too.. Last time I saw a thread where the ladies were meeting up, u chatted in the thread but never said anything about wanting to join them U should have went!


That's ok. We'll go again soon. He can show up then. We need to get a few more people in there. Nothing better than meeting people in person. handshake
Jan 13, 2010 6:44 AM CST Today's Dating
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Larf75: That's ok. We'll go again soon. He can show up then. We need to get a few more people in there. Nothing better than meeting people in person.



For sure! I am off for now. Take care D.. xx
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