he love u, but he not ready for commitment (73)
sweet_smile: Just wish all guy are like you
To say you "love" someone is "commitment"
but too bad, not many guys takes saying I "love" you as a "commitment"
To say you "love" someone is "commitment"
but too bad, not many guys takes saying I "love" you as a "commitment"
A person, either male or female should not say "I love you" to their partner unless they are committed to them.
JMHO
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Englishman55: So you are going to marry the first guy that asks you just because he has made that commitment shallow again.
To say you love someone IS making a commitment !
To say you love someone IS making a commitment !
That is not necessarily true; words are easy to say, show me.
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venusenvy: Find a man with an open heart and dont waste yourself with one that doesnt.
...ah yes...an open heart...a good indication that you may be on to something.
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In response to: How you feel if u know he love u, but he not ready to make any commitment. what will you do?
Shoot him in the balls and let us see if he commits after that. He'll know you mean business.
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woodman1: Shoot him in the balls and let us see if he commits after that. He'll know you mean business.
Hmm... such extreme measures Mr. Wood!
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lostx2: Stop and think why he might not be ready to commit yet. If you bring up the subject of marriage and he seems reluctant, it could be several things. Maybe he doesn't feel like he's making enough to support you in a comfortable life. Maybe he's thinking of where you will live. There could be alot of reasons why he's not ready to take that step yet. It's not that he doesn't love you or want to be with you. It might be he's using his brain for once.
If you get married just because you love each other and don't stop to think about finacial stability, living conditions, and such other things. you'll be finding yourself in the divorce court sooner than you'd think. Let's face it, marriage is one BIG step in life and changes it forever. If you do it on pure impulse, it will fail...been there done that.
If you get married just because you love each other and don't stop to think about finacial stability, living conditions, and such other things. you'll be finding yourself in the divorce court sooner than you'd think. Let's face it, marriage is one BIG step in life and changes it forever. If you do it on pure impulse, it will fail...been there done that.
I agree with you K... but once you are in a committed relationship and you see a future, you should start planning, together...planning does not equal getting married on the spot. But the first step is to establish if you are in a committed relationship with each other, or if its just casual...if it is casual, then you either stay or you move on, dear...your choice.
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heavensmile: How you feel if u know he love u, but he not ready to make any commitment. what will you do?
Forget him honey, any man that says he's not ready for a committment . . . . . doesn't love you.
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OH MY GOD!!!!
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heavensmile: How you feel if u know he love u, but he not ready to make any commitment. what will you do?
I am outta there. If the tides were turn and he was waiting for me to make some sort of commitment and I couldn't, he outta there.
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I have been there and done that. would remain friends unless he changes his mind and its not to late; like if I found someone else before he changed his mind. 
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woodman1: Shoot him in the balls and let us see if he commits after that. He'll know you mean business.
Hey, I like that answer..probably a bit drastic, but what the hell? I'm only going around once in life so...no I wouldn't do that, I think I'm just going to walk, I'm not going to waste my time....there are lots of other balls out there that don't require a target and wow they want to be with me, fancy that....
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OUTRAGEOUS: I agree with you K... but once you are in a committed relationship and you see a future, you should start planning, together...planning does not equal getting married on the spot. But the first step is to establish if you are in a committed relationship with each other, or if its just casual...if it is casual, then you either stay or you move on, dear...your choice.
I see your point of what you say too A., but you also have to have the understanding of what type of relationship the other person wants. Not sure how to explain this but I'll try the best I can.
If you meet someone and you get along great, love spending time together, and all the other things involved in the love department, then you have to have the talk of where is the relationship going. I know a few people who would love to find that special someone and feel loved, but they don't want marriage. Some people are to set in there ways to have someone around them 24/7. It's hard to explain it in words, but some want a life partner without the little piece of paper involved. Here in lies the problem that 1 person in the relationship wants marriage and the other doesn't. I think that even though you may love each other like no other has, if you both can't be on the same wavelength as to where the relationship is going, then one of them has to change thier mind or eventualy it will fail. You can, I believe, have a lifetime of happiness together without the living together.
I said I would never marry again, however if that certain someone comes along who I couldn't see myself without, then I might just change my mind.
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Stop and think why he might not be ready to commit yet. If you bring up the subject of marriage and he seems reluctant, it could be several things. Maybe he doesn't feel like he's making enough to support you in a comfortable life. Maybe he's thinking of where you will live. There could be alot of reasons why he's not ready to take that step yet. It's not that he doesn't love you or want to be with you. It might be he's using his brain for once.
If you get married just because you love each other and don't stop to think about finacial stability, living conditions, and such other things. you'll be finding yourself in the divorce court sooner than you'd think. Let's face it, marriage is one BIG step in life and changes it forever. If you do it on pure impulse, it will fail...been there done that.