Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Michael211_2000: No, not even short-term. Dates are very very rare, often with years going by without a single dinner and movie date.
I've been called "too negative" (among other things!) on here by some people... what do they think I got this frustrated with the situation overnight or something?
- Michael
Michael.... no offence meant, but you live in Huston Texas for Gods sake...... whats the population there ?
Try living in a town with a population of approx. 3,000 then you might find it hard...... I do, and I would certainly be able to get a date if I wanted one here.
You need to take a serious look inside yourself if you want to make some changes and get the dates you crave. Otherwise be happy with who you are.
You are obviously a man of high principle, strong character, with good morals and values, but maybe you should lighten up a bit !
willow51: michael, you live in Texas! that is a huge state , maybe try going over a county or two? lol. and if women dont like the fact that you havent had a mate before, thats their loss, i think you seem very sweet.
langleygirl: If you want different results - perhaps you need to change. You are the only consistent thing in all these years that has gotten the results that you've achieved thus far. I've seen the same general "poor me" attitude in almost every post that you've made - its not attractive in the least. So if you are the same in real life, perhaps you need to change? Hitting your head against a brick wall only goes so far, the blood you shed should be a wake up call to perhaps not do it anymore.
Perhaps ask your friends to be honest with you, say what they like or don't like about you. Ask them why they think that you don't get dates. A good hard look at ourselves isn't always pleasant, but sometimes necessary to motivate us in a different direction.
I really don't know - truly I just tired of reading the same thing over and over again. All I know its not attractive and could easily see why a person would not be attracting people to be interested in them.
There is no acknowledgment that he plays any part in his results, but simply blames others for his lack of success.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
langleygirl: I really don't know - truly I just tired of reading the same thing over and over again. All I know its not attractive and could easily see why a person would not be attracting people to be interested in them.
There is no acknowledgment that he plays any part in his results, but simply blames others for his lack of success.
I tend to use a simple rule........ When I start to point my finger of blame elsewhere, I remind myself how many fingers on the same hand are pointing back at me !!
Englishman55: I tend to use a simple rule........ When I start to point my finger of blame elsewhere, I remind myself how many fingers on the same hand are pointing back at me !!
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no way, she could be back in love by then,