Loneliness (19)
skinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Postsdo you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
skinnyminnypink: do you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
I remember feeling like that awhile after I split with my ex husband, but then I remembered why he was my ex. Better alone than with the wrong one hun.
This to will pass
skinnyminnypink: do you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
Yes i know the feeling
skinnyminnypink: do you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
I know what you mean, I love my own company and can entertain my self just fine. But some times even though i have the tv on or im playing my music the house just seems empty.
do u have pets cause mine help to keep that feeling away
With ya skinny
Data63: Yes i know the feeling
thanks not a good day
Kalimera: I remember feeling like that awhile after I split with my ex husband, but then I remembered why he was my ex. Better alone than with the wrong one hun.
This to will pass
This to will pass
You know, when the sadness just hits you with a wallop....
skinnyminnypink: You know, when the sadness just hits you with a wallop....
It's lonely when you've poured out your hear on a duplicate thread.
mermin: I know what you mean, I love my own company and can entertain my self just fine. But some times even though i have the tv on or im playing my music the house just seems empty.
do u have pets cause mine help to keep that feeling away
With ya skinny
do u have pets cause mine help to keep that feeling away
With ya skinny
Thanks, I. heading for bed......... Just one of those bad days....
Godsgift: It's lonely when you've poured out your hear on a duplicate thread.
I'm sorry - being a bit self indulgent, just suffering today - disregard... grand tomorrow
skinnyminnypink: do you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
Yeah I know how it feels,, its the not having anyone to say goodnight to feeling but when you find someone it makes you appreciate them more,, keep your chin up and think positive.
skinnyminnypink: I'm sorry - being a bit self indulgent, just suffering today - disregard... grand tomorrow
I think that thats what We are here for
LadyBlackAdder: I think that thats what We are here for
LadyBlackAdder: I think that thats what We are here for
I mean to help with the loneliness. We are all here for each other in the long run. Even during the fighting......that can make us glad to be on our own
LadyBlackAdder: I mean to help with the loneliness. We are all here for each other in the long run. Even during the fighting......that can make us glad to be on our own
Just not been a good day, ex annouced he has cancer, really appreciate you all - have to do the weekend with my parents this weekend... don't know if I am strong enough ... but I'll be grand... you know the parent thing, first time the split..
skinnyminnypink: do you know what's the worst, te loneliness of an empty house, empty bed (all joking aside) killing me at the moment..
Skinny........i feel ya!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!
Violins at the ready!!!
cailin_beag: Skinny........i feel ya!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
I can so relate to that, Ive never been one to feel lonely always surround by family and friends, but I suffered a berevement in the last few weeks and Ive never felt so alone, just wanted someone to hold me till i feel asleep.
cailin_beag: Skinny........i feel ya!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
cailin_beag: Skinny........i feel ya!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
I had a moment........on the 21st dec...........i had to go into hospital for an op to fix up the dog ears on both my hips after the tummy tuck.
Im not gonna go into detail, but i was left severely traumatised after it, cos i awake during the op, and cos they didnt give me enough anaesthetic i felt every slice and stitch they did to me!!
I cried for 2 hours in recovery after it..........and i swear to God, i never felt so alone.
All i wanted was someone there to hold me and tell me id be ok, and kiss it all better for me.
That was the first time, i had felt so lonely and alone ever, and since then, ive been craving for someone to love.
I know i have my kids here, and my family and friends.......and because of them ive never felt lonely or alone, cos i have never had the time to feel lonely, my girls sleep in my bed, and im constantly busy........but that day......it wasnt their hugs i craved, it was a hug from from the love of my life that i havent met yet.
Sad but true, and i got over that day, but it made me want to find him more, but also made me realise that by searching too hard then im gonna be left disappointed more and more.......so im just gonna let him find me............and i know he will someday!!!Violins at the ready!!!
Ah poor wee cailin.... I think the loneliness really kicks in when we have to deal with bad news.
It's there all the time but seems worse when we have to deal with illness or bereavement or other difficult times in our lives.
It's at times like that we need someone to listen, allow is to talk and cry about our loss or our fears. We need someone to give us a hug and tell us we will be ok.
I admit I get quite jealous of my family and friends who are married or in relationships at times like that. But then I didn't have anyone there for me when my mother died even though I was still married at the time.
Loneliness id a dreadful thing and I'm not sure it's possible to get used to it.
It's there all the time but seems worse when we have to deal with illness or bereavement or other difficult times in our lives.
It's at times like that we need someone to listen, allow is to talk and cry about our loss or our fears. We need someone to give us a hug and tell us we will be ok.
I admit I get quite jealous of my family and friends who are married or in relationships at times like that. But then I didn't have anyone there for me when my mother died even though I was still married at the time.
Loneliness id a dreadful thing and I'm not sure it's possible to get used to it.
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