If someone really love you.. ( Archived) (32)

Mar 4, 2010 6:47 AM CST If someone really love you..
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?
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Mar 4, 2010 6:57 AM CST If someone really love you..
summer_2009
summer_2009summer_2009Paradise Lost, Central Visayas Philippines7 Threads 1 Polls 230 Posts
MeryChen: would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?


if somebody loves me and i couldn't love him back i will definitely tell him the truth as early as possible and not to play games on him.. i know how painful it is when you love someone and it's not being returned..been there so i won't do that to someone..lips sad flower
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Mar 4, 2010 7:03 AM CST If someone really love you..
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
MeryChen: would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?

MeryChen.... have you ever considered that you may not actually know what love is, and are rather more in love with the thought of being in love, without actually knowing what it is.

Why you continually post this type of thread and numerous blogs about love really has me perplexed.

Stop torturing yourself with thoughts of love and enjoy your life for the now...... You will find love soon enough, without all the heartache you are creating for yourself.

JMO

dunno
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Mar 4, 2010 7:03 AM CST If someone really love you..
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
MeryChen: would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?

You can't force yourself to love someone just because you feel you should return their feelings. If someone loves me or I feel he's falling for me and I come to realize I cannot return their feelings, I'd just distance myself from them and stick to friendship, for I don't find it fair to give them hopes only to crush them when their feelings get deeper and their love grows.
Of course these are things that would be discussed seriously. I do not play games and don't like others to play games with me either. Don't want to hurt others, just like I don't want others to hurt me.
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Mar 4, 2010 1:15 PM CST If someone really love you..
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
MeryChen: would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?


jaw drop
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Mar 6, 2010 7:15 AM CST If someone really love you..
Zuleika
ZuleikaZuleikaMadrid, Spain1 Threads 148 Posts
MeryChen: If someone really loved you, would you love them back or ... just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?


A person doesn't just love someone because that person loves them. You have to have mutual feeling, both feel the same way. I would never play any games on anyone. If a guy loved me and I didn't feel the same, I'd tell him. No games.
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Mar 6, 2010 7:17 AM CST If someone really love you..
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I don't play games with love. I would never take advantage of someone.
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Mar 7, 2010 1:20 PM CST If someone really love you..
juststevie
juststeviejuststevieMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 27 Posts
um, can't love someone I don't love, but no - I would not pretend to love someone for some kind of financial gain... if that's your question purple heart
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Mar 7, 2010 1:25 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
see thats just where women go wrong!
professor
they fall in love with a guy..because they are attracted to them...
then slowly..over time expect change!roll eyes
only to kick you out 5years down the line claiming your not the person they metlaugh laugh grin
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Mar 7, 2010 1:27 PM CST If someone really love you..
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
mickybwoy: see thats just where women go wrong!

they fall in love with a guy..because they are attracted to them...
then slowly..over time expect change!
only to kick you out 5years down the line claiming your not the person they met


Not all women, Honey. Some of us are truly looking for a man of character, and waiting for love to grow, based on mutual respect, and a desire to be part of something bigger than ourselves...

teddybear
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Mar 7, 2010 1:31 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
LadyPhoenix1965: Not all women, Honey. Some of us are truly looking for a man of character, and waiting for love to grow, based on mutual respect, and a desire to be part of something bigger than ourselves...
mumbling mumbling mumbling mumbling mumbling laugh
ok ok was just relating to my experiences upto nowfrustrated frustrated doh
i promise to try an beleive you...try!!wink grin
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Mar 7, 2010 1:34 PM CST If someone really love you..
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
mickybwoy: ok ok was just relating to my experiences upto now
i promise to try an beleive you...try!!


I'd love to meet this woman in a dark alley... It's women like her that make it so hard for the rest of us...

very mad
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Mar 7, 2010 1:37 PM CST If someone really love you..
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
thumbs up

Yet when you least expect it,love hits you.
LadyPhoenix1965: Not all women, Honey. Some of us are truly looking for a man of character, and waiting for love to grow, based on mutual respect, and a desire to be part of something bigger than ourselves...
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Mar 7, 2010 1:38 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy: see thats just where women go wrong!

they fall in love with a guy..because they are attracted to them...
then slowly..over time expect change!
only to kick you out 5years down the line claiming your not the person they met


I was married to my late husband 20 years.Yes there were times when I felt like pulling up stakes and moving on when things didn't always go like I'd wouldn't liked things to go but I was in it for the long haul.
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Mar 7, 2010 1:42 PM CST If someone really love you..
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Yet when you least expect it,love hits you.


You bin hit, huh...???? applause
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Mar 7, 2010 1:43 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
somechick: I was married to my late husband 20 years.Yes there were times when I felt like pulling up stakes and moving on when things didn't always go like I'd wouldn't liked things to go but I was in it for the long haul.
you must be a good one then and allowed for change instead of demanding it?? well donecomfort comfort grin
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Mar 7, 2010 1:44 PM CST If someone really love you..
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
No.grin
LadyPhoenix1965: You bin hit, huh...????
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Mar 7, 2010 1:47 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy: you must be a good one then and allowed for change instead of demanding it?? well done



Thank you.But I'm not perfect.I have faults.I only wanted love,and respect.
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Mar 7, 2010 1:48 PM CST If someone really love you..
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
LadyPhoenix1965: You bin hit, huh...????
hell yeah!
she knew there was no conciquence first time it happened so...
yeah i know..more fool me for stayindoh doh
but when i find somethin i want i try keep it.
then realised ya cant change others only oneselfpeace yay
now lifes cushty!!!cause i left hergrin
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Mar 7, 2010 1:48 PM CST If someone really love you..
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
MeryChen: would you love them back or you'll just see that there is a chance to play a game on that person because they love you so much & would do anything for you?

If you were a naughty man/woman, would you change your behaviour for that person that love you with pure heart or maybe you'll just think that he/she is just a boring silly person and will leave him/her soon after you get what you want?
I, for one, am happy with who I am and I see no reason to change either of us.

If I had to go through all that (and I did) it is not worth it.wave handshake
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