Am I wasting my time? (24)

Mar 8, 2010 10:45 AM CST Am I wasting my time?
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
Leem1: He is probably interested. Its hard to know weather to slap the gob on someone after a coffee date. At least after a few drinks it easier. He sound like he is shy so if you really like him why not tell him that. Maybe then he will feel comfortable comong out of his shell.


What he said.....grin
Mar 8, 2010 11:01 AM CST Am I wasting my time?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
JustLittleMe: Ooohhhhhh.......I think he might just not be into you hunny, if he was, he would have made a little bit more effort to contact you after the 'Buffer Date'.

I met a guy that told me he had this rule of not getting in touch with a woman he had just met 48 hrs after the meeting and apparently he broke his rule by seeing me the following day (when he asked for the bill at the restaurant and went to the bathroom, leaving me to pay for it). So I gave him almost 1 month. He called and texted me like crazy during that time. grin
Mar 8, 2010 11:07 AM CST Am I wasting my time?
Leem1
Leem1Leem1Dublin, Ireland117 Posts
Liebe2: I met a guy that told me he had this rule of not getting in touch with a woman he had just met 48 hrs after the meeting and apparently he broke his rule by seeing me the following day (when he asked for the bill at the restaurant and went to the bathroom, leaving me to pay for it). So I gave him almost 1 month. He called and texted me like crazy during that time.


Ah the good old 3 day rule. Don't text or call for 3 days after a date so you dont want to appear to keen. The start of a relationship is very important, it is little things like that , that can tip the balance of power. laugh
Mar 8, 2010 12:41 PM CST Am I wasting my time?
tornado778
tornado778tornado778offaly, Offaly Ireland9 Threads 1,413 Posts
SumYugHoe: Just wanna get some advice.I was mailing a guy on here for a good few months and we had a few phone conversations, we met up for a sort of date, I say sort of date cause he called a few days before and said he was nervous about meeting, so i said 'Ahhhh its not really a date, sure we dont even know eachother yet, its just a coffee'.So we met up for the coffee and I thought things went great, he was nice to chat to and very hot! We said our goodbyes after the coffee (to be honest we had gotten on so well I thought that he wud have kissed me , but he didnt) so afterwards i text him to thank him for the nice company he has text and e-mailed me a few times, theres been no increse or decrease in the amount of contact...............Is he interested......or is he just not that into me?
he could be just goin with the flow..dunno
just like you im suspecting scold laugh
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