Kick in the ........ (18)
Trappydublin, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 17 PostsListen been on here a while.... seperated since November... 2 kids.... Very conscious that i have kids and dont want them thinking their da is out looking.... so i havent met anyone.... My ex-wife told me today that she has met someone twice..... ripped the heart out of me.... never thought we would get back but still biggest kick in the guts i ever had.... anyone else go through it????
Trappy: Listen been on here a while.... seperated since November... 2 kids.... Very conscious that i have kids and dont want them thinking their da is out looking.... so i havent met anyone.... My ex-wife told me today that she has met someone twice..... ripped the heart out of me.... never thought we would get back but still biggest kick in the guts i ever had....anyone else go through it????
Never been married but have seen Ex's hooking up with new partners. You get that sick felling in your stomach when you think about it. Happens to us all.
Best thing to do is find something to take your mind off it. Join the gym or something. It passes with time.
it can hurt but move on
let your kids see you happy and there will be happy
let your kids see you happy and there will be happy
I saw it from the other side.
I was separated for almost a year before I eventually heard the good news... that he'd met someone else. To say that I was relieved was an understatement. I thought that from then on he wouldn't be begging at my door to have him back. No such luck, took another 6months or so for him to actually move on, even though he was still with her all that time.
I was separated for almost a year before I eventually heard the good news... that he'd met someone else. To say that I was relieved was an understatement. I thought that from then on he wouldn't be begging at my door to have him back. No such luck, took another 6months or so for him to actually move on, even though he was still with her all that time.
Well my ex husband told me he was seeing someone else before xmas - it really is a kick in the ..
However I recently got an email from her asking why I thought they were a couple as she had heard that I did? I told her that he had told me and my 17 year old daughter and other people that they were together and have been for a while. Seemingly though its all in his mind - they are friends and that it. She has no other interest in him and has told him so on several occasions.
I feel better now!
However I recently got an email from her asking why I thought they were a couple as she had heard that I did? I told her that he had told me and my 17 year old daughter and other people that they were together and have been for a while. Seemingly though its all in his mind - they are friends and that it. She has no other interest in him and has told him so on several occasions.
I feel better now!
Lizzie14: Well my ex husband told me he was seeing someone else before xmas - it really is a kick in the ..
However I recently got an email from her asking why I thought they were a couple as she had heard that I did? I told her that he had told me and my 17 year old daughter and other people that they were together and have been for a while. Seemingly though its all in his mind - they are friends and that it. She has no other interest in him and has told him so on several occasions.
I feel better now!
However I recently got an email from her asking why I thought they were a couple as she had heard that I did? I told her that he had told me and my 17 year old daughter and other people that they were together and have been for a while. Seemingly though its all in his mind - they are friends and that it. She has no other interest in him and has told him so on several occasions.
I feel better now!
Jesus L, is your ex-husband nuts,delusional or both... well thank god that my conscious is clear.. like yours... i hope the kids give me some credit for not rushing out....
LusciousLibra: Didn't mean to cause any offence
It is hard for some when the final line is drawn. That last indication that it's over can be a shocker especially if it's not expected quite so soon. For others it's a relief.
It is hard for some when the final line is drawn. That last indication that it's over can be a shocker especially if it's not expected quite so soon. For others it's a relief.
none caused LL,
very well put by the way....makes sense now.....
Lol My daughter and I have decided hes delusional! Hes had plenty of opportunity to set the record straight but he hasn't. He continues to let us believe that they are an item - even though we know they aren't! Men eh?
Trappy: none caused LL,
very well put by the way....makes sense now.....
very well put by the way....makes sense now.....
You know instinctively when it's over over ... me, he was having an affair for about 7 years of a 14 year relationship, 10 of which was a marriage thing ..... separated cos he could not move on from her, after many counselling sessions, he was diagnosed with cancer month before we separated but he didn't tell me and today he was operated on ..... bizarre emotions ...... but not unhappy to be separated .... not to say that I won't help in whatever way I can but ain't going back ... and. btw, she disappeared as soon as he was 'available' .... might have been a forbidden fruits sort of thing going on ... don't know and not for me anymore to consider .... not unsympathetic but realistic ... everyone to their own situation ....
Lizzie14: Lol My daughter and I have decided hes delusional! Hes had plenty of opportunity to set the record straight but he hasn't. He continues to let us believe that they are an item - even though we know they aren't! Men eh?
Men eh... who would have them.... all not the same thank god... his imagination is a wondrous thing!!!
rita101: Im with you there lol. She keeps trying to stir up trouble for me and I havent done a thing to her. I console myself with the fact that she now has to live his alcaholic cheating fool.
The best revenge is to let her have him!!skinnyminnypink: You know instinctively when it's over over ... me, he was having an affair for about 7 years of a 14 year relationship, 10 of which was a marriage thing ..... separated cos he could not move on from her, after many counselling sessions, he was diagnosed with cancer month before we separated but he didn't tell me and today he was operated on ..... bizarre emotions ...... but not unhappy to be separated .... not to say that I won't help in whatever way I can but ain't going back ... and. btw, she disappeared as soon as he was 'available' .... might have been a forbidden fruits sort of thing going on ... don't know and not for me anymore to consider .... not unsympathetic but realistic ... everyone to their own situation ....
Thanks for that... i knew it was over aswell... didnt like it though.... think the kids clouded it...
rita101: Im with you there lol. She keeps trying to stir up trouble for me and I havent done a thing to her. I console myself with the fact that she now has to live his alcaholic cheating fool.
Yeah do have a little giggle to myself as i think his new GF is completely oblivious to his cheating lying and just general selfishness , Unfortunately she'll have to learn that for herself.:) dont have any sympathy as i think if a person doesnt treat their kids well its a sure sign they wont treat anyone else well.I think the way to move on is not to look back exes are exes for good reasons.
Trappy: Thanks for that... i knew it was over aswell... didnt like it though.... think the kids clouded it...
you do what you can when children are involved ... but children are no fools and deserve the truth ....you just make sure it's at a level they understand ..... not a good situation but we'll give you love and support ....
skinnyminnypink: you do what you can when children are involved ... but children are no fools and deserve the truth ....you just make sure it's at a level they understand ..... not a good situation but we'll give you love and support ....
thanks a mill......
skinnyminnypink: you do what you can when children are involved ... but children are no fools and deserve the truth ....you just make sure it's at a level they understand ..... not a good situation but we'll give you love and support ....
thanks a mill......[/quote
Think the fact your able to talk about feeling like youve been kicked in the guts and still knowing that ,you would never go back is in itself a sign youve moved on
Think the fact your able to talk about feeling like youve been kicked in the guts and still knowing that ,you would never go back is in itself a sign youve moved on
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