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Apr 18, 2010 1:29 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
How long after relationship of 18 years should you wait before going out on a date
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Apr 18, 2010 1:33 PM CST how long after
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
expressman: How long after relationship of 18 years should you wait before going out on a date


Depend how the relationship ended and if your ready to date.
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Apr 18, 2010 1:35 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
Costapacket: Depend how the relationship ended and if your ready to date.

hi it ended by me walking out .not sure if i am ready?
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Apr 18, 2010 1:36 PM CST how long after
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: How long after relationship of 18 years should you wait before going out on a date


Dont leave it as long as i did and become set in you're ways,if you feel ready now then go for it, life is too short..
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Apr 18, 2010 1:38 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
scottyburd: Dont leave it as long as i did and become set in you're ways,if you feel ready now then go for it, life is too short..

you are probably right but after a long time it seems very hard to start again('frustrated');
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Apr 18, 2010 1:40 PM CST how long after
expressman: How long after relationship of 18 years should you wait before going out on a date



It would depend on how long it takes you to recover/get over your 18 yr relationship.
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Apr 18, 2010 1:43 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
somechick: It would depend on how long it takes you to recover/get over your 18 yr relationship.

the amazing thing is i do not feel anything not hurt at all
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Apr 18, 2010 1:48 PM CST how long after
expressman: the amazing thing is i do not feel anything not hurt at all



You might when the numbness wears off.Maybe or maybe not.Everybody's different on how they handle a breakup.
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Apr 18, 2010 1:49 PM CST how long after
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
I waited 6 months after my ex walked out (12 year relationship) but its different for everyone, no set rules really... when ever you feel ready...
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Apr 18, 2010 1:50 PM CST how long after
Legend3
Legend3Legend3Mir Jo Goth, Sindh Pakistan92 Threads 18 Polls 949 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: I waited 6 months after my ex walked out (12 year relationship) but its different for everyone, no set rules really... when ever you feel ready...
after 6 months u hunted an other one..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 18, 2010 1:52 PM CST how long after
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
Legend3: after 6 months u hunted an other one..


yup.....tongue
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Apr 18, 2010 1:55 PM CST how long after
Legend3
Legend3Legend3Mir Jo Goth, Sindh Pakistan92 Threads 18 Polls 949 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: yup.....
and now ,is he ok ? grin grin
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Apr 18, 2010 1:55 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: I waited 6 months after my ex walked out (12 year relationship) but its different for everyone, no set rules really... when ever you feel ready...

to be truthfull i have not had the urge to go out looking and i am not that sort of a person just to sit around it seems i have got to put a rocket up my jacksy('doh');
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Apr 18, 2010 1:56 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: I waited 6 months after my ex walked out (12 year relationship) but its different for everyone, no set rules really... when ever you feel ready...

to be truthfull i have not had the urge to go out looking and i am not that sort of a person just to sit around it seems i have got to put a rocket up my jacksy('doh');
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Apr 18, 2010 1:58 PM CST how long after
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
expressman: to be truthfull i have not had the urge to go out looking and i am not that sort of a person just to sit around it seems i have got to put a rocket up my jacksy('');
Good luck,Makes me think of that old song breaking up is hard to do!comfort wine sad flower
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Apr 18, 2010 2:00 PM CST how long after
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
Legend3: and now ,is he ok ?


yes after the therapy he was fine...tongue


actually was are still very good friends...grin
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Apr 18, 2010 2:01 PM CST how long after
Legend3
Legend3Legend3Mir Jo Goth, Sindh Pakistan92 Threads 18 Polls 949 Posts
demonfairy: Good luck,Makes me think of that old song breaking up is hard to do!
Your post makes me think of this new song ,beakngup is easy for many women rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 18, 2010 2:02 PM CST how long after
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
When ever you feel you are up to it....sorry you are hurting now....the pain will ease but really it never truely goes away...
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Apr 18, 2010 2:02 PM CST how long after
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
expressman: to be truthfull i have not had the urge to go out looking and i am not that sort of a person just to sit around it seems i have got to put a rocket up my jacksy('');


Yes I was like thank, I couldnt be bothered, then I joined a few dating sites, and a month later a guy contacted me, who made me sit up and think wow.... so we dated for quite a while...
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Apr 18, 2010 2:04 PM CST how long after
expressman
expressmanexpressmanwolverhampton, West Midlands, England UK10 Threads 239 Posts
demonfairy: Good luck,Makes me think of that old song breaking up is hard to do!

i do not think it is hard but it is find courage (don*t laugh) to date another woman its like tyring to pluck up courage ('blushing');
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