Right Fighters? ( Archived) (56)

Apr 25, 2010 7:33 AM CST Right Fighters?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Conrad73: But it is a Tissue!


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Apr 25, 2010 7:39 AM CST Right Fighters?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
From the postings I am reading I assume this is a continuation from something else. So I guess I have no opinion on that since I didn't read the other posting.

But, to the OP question: It takes two to fight. If you don't engage they will be no battle.
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Apr 25, 2010 7:40 AM CST Right Fighters?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
tomboygirl: I'm generally non confrontational,so i would just avoid discussions with that person.
i realize this may not be the best way to handle things tho.


thumbs up stick to you guns, no need to conform to someone elses angry rantings. For some people it is the only way they know how to communicate sadly ......sigh
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Apr 25, 2010 7:42 AM CST Right Fighters?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
tomboygirl: I'm generally non confrontational,so i would just avoid discussions with that person.
i realize this may not be the best way to handle things tho.

So, is that why you are ignoring me ? doh

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Apr 25, 2010 7:47 AM CST Right Fighters?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Big_John: From the postings I am reading I assume this is a continuation from something else. So I guess I have no opinion on that since I didn't read the other posting.

But, to the OP question: It takes two to fight. If you don't engage they will be no battle.


There was no point putting a door between us, she had a very powerful voice. To avoid engagement in front of the kids I used to have to physically run away !! But she was very fit and athletic and could run just as fast as me and also shout at the same time .....sigh

Shear and utter madness that was. I will never tolerate that sort of behaviour ever ever again.
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Apr 25, 2010 7:51 AM CST Right Fighters?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
RDM59: There was no point putting a door between us, she had a very powerful voice. To avoid engagement in front of the kids I used to have to physically run away !! But she was very fit and athletic and could run just as fast as me and also shout at the same time .....

Shear and utter madness that was. I will never tolerate that sort of behaviour ever ever again.


We generally have choices in life: stay and fight; or retreat and give up, or retreat and regroup to fight another day. If the relationship is worth keeping, figure out how to fight fairly. If the relationship sucks, retreat and move on.
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Apr 25, 2010 7:53 AM CST Right Fighters?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
RDM59: There was no point putting a door between us, she had a very powerful voice. To avoid engagement in front of the kids I used to have to physically run away !! But she was very fit and athletic and could run just as fast as me and also shout at the same time .....

Shear and utter madness that was. I will never tolerate that sort of behaviour ever ever again.


That sounds insane.comfort
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Apr 25, 2010 7:59 AM CST Right Fighters?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Big_John: We generally have choices in life: stay and fight; or retreat and give up, or retreat and regroup to fight another day. If the relationship is worth keeping, figure out how to fight fairly. If the relationship sucks, retreat and move on.


No point fighting over incompatability .......sigh
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Apr 25, 2010 8:02 AM CST Right Fighters?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
RDM59: No point fighting over incompatability .......


Sorry....beer
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Apr 25, 2010 9:14 AM CST Right Fighters?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Boban1: I sneak up from behind with a baseball bat ... and make my point ...


So do I... thumbs up
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Apr 25, 2010 9:52 AM CST Right Fighters?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Englishman55: So, is that why you are ignoring me ?


hug me??!ignore you??! NEVER!!!comfort bouquet
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Apr 25, 2010 9:54 AM CST Right Fighters?
Boban1: I sneak up from behind with a baseball bat ... and make my point ...
Point?
More likely a DENT!grin
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Apr 25, 2010 10:03 AM CST Right Fighters?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Big_John: We generally have choices in life: stay and fight; or retreat and give up, or retreat and regroup to fight another day. If the relationship is worth keeping, figure out how to fight fairly. If the relationship sucks, retreat and move on.


Ive always been a big fan of pick your fights..
if its not that important or you consider the other person as being irrational,and you hardly know them,walk away shaking your head.
if you have to fight cos the outcome will really effect your life/kids/relationship-know what you are talking about,and state clearly all points,without aggression.

actually,i haven't had a fight in ages,i must be getting really good at avoiding confrontation.
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Apr 25, 2010 10:05 AM CST Right Fighters?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
RDM59: stick to you guns, no need to conform to someone elses angry rantings. For some people it is the only way they know how to communicate sadly ......


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Apr 25, 2010 10:33 AM CST Right Fighters?
elmoangel
elmoangelelmoangelfremont, California USA122 Posts
i usually say, "and i will give you the last word" then punchem in the mouth they wont expect it laugh
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Apr 25, 2010 10:40 AM CST Right Fighters?
bollywood
bollywoodbollywoodTRIVANDRUM, Kerala India53 Threads 2 Polls 973 Posts
somechick: How does one deal with someone who always has to either have the very last word in a discussion or will struggle to win an arguement?


If the point contribute to the discussion then fine. Its better to ignore insensible comments and weird remarks. One start argue to win the point in a discussion only when they are out of original thoughts.

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