xxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain1,568 posts
illu_66: Me neither - 1 certainly doesn't know, one DOES and one.... No COMMENT!
But it's all just a crush. I doubt Freckles OR I believe it'll go anywhere.... Although I AM intregued about HER list too..... I konly KNEW about ONE!!!!
hehe..... Well one must know... could it go anywhere.. who knows..
2... well perhaps he dont know..maybe its not a crush..
3.. well that one would only ever be a crush..lives in the US..
xxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain1,568 posts
JAN_is: You two! You could meet up tomorrow if you wanted to, you are both so close.
Unfortunately, the reality is that crushes rarely go any further on dating sites from what I can see.
Is it distance? Are people just playing games in order to build confidence?
ah Jan.... I cant meet tomorrow... ive got the house to clean..
but your right most crushes on dating sites do go much further, the distance kills it most of the time.... but as for games.. not for me... I dont need to biuld my confidence..
I think crushing is just fun! It doesn't seem like it is for game playing confidence building. Some people have crushes on celebrities (like .....Hugh Jackman for instance) . There is no thought that they will actually be with the person, but it feels good to imagine being close to someone, especially if you just happen to be on hiatus from the real thing. I see no harm in it. I also see no harm in flirting. It's all fun and silly! Of course, I am not one to take anything very seriously these days, so I might be way out of line here.
Venusruled: I think crushing is just fun! It doesn't seem like it is for game playing confidence building. Some people have crushes on celebrities (like .....Hugh Jackman for instance) . There is no thought that they will actually be with the person, but it feels good to imagine being close to someone, especially if you just happen to be on hiatus from the real thing. I see no harm in it. I also see no harm in flirting. It's all fun and silly! Of course, I am not one to take anything very seriously these days, so I might be way out of line here.
As long as things are in context, and people know the 'truth' of the flirting. Nobody will get hurt. I'd hate to hurt someone because of flirting ignorance!
illu_66: As long as things are in context, and people know the 'truth' of the flirting. Nobody will get hurt. I'd hate to hurt someone because of flirting ignorance!
Yes, FI is the number one cause of late night munchies and stalking behavior. Must be aware of the risks and pitfalls of FI.
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But it's all just a crush. I doubt Freckles OR I believe it'll go anywhere.... Although I AM intregued about HER list too..... I konly KNEW about ONE!!!!
hehe.....
Well one must know... could it go anywhere.. who knows..
2... well perhaps he dont know..maybe its not a crush..
3.. well that one would only ever be a crush..lives in the US..
so tell me yours!!!...