missingLondon: Do you have to move to a big city where there are plenty of unattached men you might find hard to meet or can you find love at the local or online?
I hope you don't have to move to a big city. You can take the boy out of the country but you can't take the country out of the boy. I'll live alone before I move to a city. Just not an option for me. I have an idea what you mean. There MIGHT be one new user that comes to cs each week in my area. Maybe. So what's the odds that one person is age, appearance, lifestyle suitable? From what I understand there are hundreds of new members each DAY in the urban areas! No easy answer for me. Patience, Patience.
missingLondon: Do you have to move to a big city where there are plenty of unattached men you might find hard to meet or can you find love at the local or online?
you can find plenty unattached men and women ,but it might not be what you are looking for or your type, me being from new york i seek a laid back woman who knows how to have fun, but relax and NY do not go together or big city .
bob1959: I hope you don't have to move to a big city. You can take the boy out of the country but you can't take the country out of the boy. I'll live alone before I move to a city. Just not an option for me. I have an idea what you mean. There MIGHT be one new user that comes to cs each week in my area. Maybe. So what's the odds that one person is age, appearance, lifestyle suitable? From what I understand there are hundreds of new members each DAY in the urban areas! No easy answer for me. Patience, Patience.
I hear you. It's the same with jobs. Right now I'm looking for both a job and relationship prospects in my native Malta. Don't want to move back to London because of job instability and the loneliness of city life. However I wonder, my ex who stayed in London replaced me within two months. In native Malta the prospects of meeting someone who's my type are slim, for various reasons but I'm sticking with Malta because the sun and sea are far greater attractions and I'm not willing to move to look for a needle in a haystack.
bob1959: I hope you don't have to move to a big city. You can take the boy out of the country but you can't take the country out of the boy. I'll live alone before I move to a city. Just not an option for me. I have an idea what you mean. There MIGHT be one new user that comes to cs each week in my area. Maybe. So what's the odds that one person is age, appearance, lifestyle suitable? From what I understand there are hundreds of new members each DAY in the urban areas! No easy answer for me. Patience, Patience.
My sentiments exactly. But, with one new member per week in your area, I would say there is some hope. In my case, I should expect myself to be the one and only CS member from this little island that ever was and ever will be. At least we have quite a few tourists visiting in the summer to see our volcano. Patience, Patience...
missingLondon: Do you have to move to a big city where there are plenty of unattached men you might find hard to meet or can you find love at the local or online?
I think it's hard to do meet date-prospects the "old fashioned way" because the people I meet are pretty much work associates, students, and families of my daughter's friends. Unless you count brief encounters with the happy hour waiters or the barristas at Borders or supermarket cashiers!
To me, nothing makes meeting people easier than taking a class (or several) because you have regular, extended interaction like at work or in your soccer league or your weekly yoga class... BUT a semester has a predictable end date just in case things turn awkward or creepy later:)
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