wordking: well to notice i am getting much more hits now in my forty's then in my youth i think i am aging pretty good plus there's not enough good men to go around older men are more long term
; everybody says Life begin at 40 you will be pretty good on your youth time for sure.
In response to: We are all are all mature, in general, majority of women find older and married man are more attractive than the young ones what do you think their secrets that makes you attracted in them.
I am talking about a group of older and married men in general.
Bardawulf: Guess it depends on how much older the man is.
If I may mention some women's profiles here, for example, where women are searching for men, who are about 3-10 years older than them. With these I think it could have to do with that kinda fear, or maybe on the other hand with that predjudice that all(!) men of the same age aren't as far in social/mental development as women. As well, I've had a look at profiles in which women are searching for men who are at least five years older then them, up to a max. age that's twice as much as their own (or even more). Call me ignorant, but (in my opinion) that has just to do with money...On the on hand you're right. But I could also imagine such a relationship in which a woman does fear this way (from time to time), because she has already had one or few relationships that turned out that way.In the end, there glady are so much different women in this world - I mean different in character and behavior - that I wouldn't say most of the women feel more attracted to older men.
Indeed I'd say, after having reached a certain age, women feel more like wanting some younger man. So it balances, I guess. *joking*
You have point for that but don't look at my age that's not real lol.
Bardawulf: Guess it depends on how much older the man is.
If I may mention some women's profiles here, for example, where women are searching for men, who are about 3-10 years older than them. With these I think it could have to do with that kinda fear, or maybe on the other hand with that predjudice that all(!) men of the same age aren't as far in social/mental development as women. As well, I've had a look at profiles in which women are searching for men who are at least five years older then them, up to a max. age that's twice as much as their own (or even more). Call me ignorant, but (in my opinion) that has just to do with money...On the on hand you're right. But I could also imagine such a relationship in which a woman does fear this way (from time to time), because she has already had one or few relationships that turned out that way.In the end, there glady are so much different women in this world - I mean different in character and behavior - that I wouldn't say most of the women feel more attracted to older men.
Indeed I'd say, after having reached a certain age, women feel more like wanting some younger man. So it balances, I guess. *joking*
You are right some women feel like wanting to have a relationship with younger men the same as men wanting younger women too i guess so..
Well for me its how young and how old? I mean if you ask me if I found an 18 year old man mature, maybe not! Attractive maybe! I won't date a man that young even if I find him mature and attractive! I won't date an attractive and mature married man period! Mature and attractive? Yes! Married? No! It depends too on how old, older is and how good he looks for his age! If you're 40 and look like 80 maybe not! There is too an age limit on age! I won't date a man more than his early 50s!
Alekk2: Well for me its how young and how old? I mean if you ask me if I found an 18 year old man mature, maybe not! Attractive maybe! I won't date a man that young even if I find him mature and attractive! I won't date an attractive and mature married man period! Mature and attractive? Yes! Married? No! It depends too on how old, older is and how good he looks for his age! If you're 40 and look like 80 maybe not! There is too an age limit on age! I won't date a man more than his early 50s!
To be honest, the Young Women think older Guys have alot of Money. Plus they are much more Mature, and if Married, it means No Strings Attached. They are just playing the Game.
englishelegance: Well i am attracted to men my age or slightly older,but definately not married. What do i find attractive in older men???. They most definately know how to treat a lady!
and the ones who have had it and let it go seem to regret it. security, and proper respect i do believe is a big enticer. and you don't have to have millions, just the idea they will be taken care of is enough plus love that goes with it... jmho
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You are sweet!!!!