yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .
it seems like i cant win !!
damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
Do what I do ? I tell people who ask me to chat that I am already chatting to someone else ,and I don't want to get it convoluted by chatting with many They respect that and don't hassle me again . I hear you about the fact that if you answer mails and flowers politely ,some guys will think you are interested ,so it really helps with the old "convoluted" statement .
missbliss: Do what I do ? I tell people who ask me to chat that I am already chatting to someone else ,and I don't want to get it convoluted by chatting with many They respect that and don't hassle me again . I hear you about the fact that if you answer mails and flowers politely ,some guys will think you are interested ,so it really helps with the old "convoluted" statement .
thank you for your advice !!!
this internet dating is tricky !!! you seem to have it down pat !!!
this internet dating is tricky !!! you seem to have it down pat !!!
Yeah it can be tricky alright . But I am the same in real life , if I am not interested I don't waste my or the guys time . I will be diplomatic as best I can , but at the end of the day , if someone won't take no for an answer thats there problem . I would imagine that you get loads of emails and it can be annoying . I don't have a picture up but yet I get mail flowers and have pages of unanswered IM's which is a surprise .Maybe blokes are less "fussy " then us girls . But at the end of the day , it's all a bit of fun and thats ok , forget about the ones who get nasty , they are not worth your time . I do have someone I care about and thats all I need to consider . Love the new pic btw
missbliss: Yeah it can be tricky alright . But I am the same in real life , if I am not interested I don't waste my or the guys time . I will be diplomatic as best I can , but at the end of the day , if someone won't take no for an answer thats there problem . I would imagine that you get loads of emails and it can be annoying . I don't have a picture up but yet I get mail flowers and have pages of unanswered IM's which is a surprise .Maybe blokes are less "fussy " then us girls . But at the end of the day , it's all a bit of fun and thats ok , forget about the ones who get nasty , they are not worth your time . I do have someone I care about and thats all I need to consider . Love the new pic btw
thank you !!!
changed my hair ages ago and just didnt have any pics at the time. must up load some more . was a big change from blonde to red , but i love it !"!!
yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .
it seems like i cant win !!
damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
us men have our fingers stuck in to many pies its better just to be in contact if possible with one girl and if you both like each other.give it your best yes w will face rejection on this site and even make afool of our selvs. we need to be prepared for it and deal with it in a manner that is fitting and not to take it personal..
yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .
it seems like i cant win !!
damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
Thats because you are dealing with a bucket load of fragile egos!
We all say airily.."I dont care if he/she doesnt reply; its no skin off my nose"..
When that's simply not true..but its hard to admit sometimes..
yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .
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