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May 6, 2010 7:27 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
May 6, 2010 7:41 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
confused dammit
May 6, 2010 7:45 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
Kingmob
KingmobKingmobDublin, Ireland2 Threads 42 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!


I feel you pain but think how those monkeys ruin it for the rest of us (nice decent and genuine guys)...Those unenlightened, unimaginative and unevolved primates....Oh how i do hate them.
May 6, 2010 7:52 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
some great advice ....

have any of the guys had women do this to you ???
May 6, 2010 7:55 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!


I know where your coming from.I get the same grief from supermodel women,they wont take no for an answer.

If your not interested then your not interested,these insulting fellows will just have to lump it if they dont like it.Look on the brightside your young,attractive and recieving plenty of attention.so im sure if you steer your boat steadily through the pond of frogs,you will eventually arrive at destination prince charming.comfort
May 6, 2010 7:59 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
Kingmob
KingmobKingmobDublin, Ireland2 Threads 42 Posts
starrysky: some great advice ....

have any of the guys had women do this to you ???


No...I always ask first if they'd like to chat via email
May 6, 2010 8:06 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
PASSION8MAN
PASSION8MANPASSION8MANLIMERICK, Limerick Ireland90 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
starrysky: some great advice ....

have any of the guys had women do this to you ???



I think it"s typically a male thing to pursue conversing

At the end of the day it"s the womans choice .

I think Its best when both parties just have
a connection without even having to say a word
and you just click with them .

Those are the best smitten
May 6, 2010 8:36 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
PASSION8MAN: I think it"s typically a male thing to pursue

At the end of the day it"s the womans choice .

I think Its best when both parties just have
a connection without even having to say a word
and you just click with them .

Those are the best


its quite scarey how aggressive and abusive they become , id hate to meet them in a pub or something and reject them in person !!!
May 6, 2010 8:51 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
PASSION8MAN
PASSION8MANPASSION8MANLIMERICK, Limerick Ireland90 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
starrysky: its quite scarey how aggressive and abusive they become , id hate to meet them in a pub or something and reject them in person !!!


Cant really comment any further on it since
I dont know the guy dunno

He could have handled the situation better tho I guess doh

Id say you werent expecting anything like that comfort

Maybe the guy was having a bad day and took it out on you very mad

Still reading his comments seems like he has some anger
and frustration towards women confused
May 6, 2010 9:33 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!
i can't understand lads who act like that. Why not concentrate on the replies you do get rather than abusing those who don't reply, i think alot of it is down to the fact that they think women using these sites are desperate and so if the don't get a reply the rejection is harder felt, what the fail to see it that internet dating is just another way of finding someone and women aren't going to lower there usual standards just because it's done via a computer, good thread by the waywave
May 6, 2010 10:27 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
jimbo79: i can't understand lads who act like that. Why not concentrate on the replies you do get rather than abusing those who don't reply, i think alot of it is down to the fact that they think women using these sites are desperate and so if the don't get a reply the rejection is harder felt, what the fail to see it that internet dating is just another way of finding someone and women aren't going to lower there usual standards just because it's done via a computer, good thread by the way


i just cant believe the reactions of some people !!!

having no luck with men this week jimbo !!!

im in the process of adopting a doggy instead !!!!
May 6, 2010 10:28 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
Kingmob: If these clown haven't got the sense to treat women with a bit of respect and dignity why do you care about their feelings? Remember you weren't selected because of your profile...It's because you were online at the time and they will keep IMing girls and women until they get one that responds. It's like fishing for them, they cast a wide net and see what they catch. Don't take it personal and don't let those shaved apes make it personal.


that is very true !!!

i never thought of it like that !!!

shaved apes rolling on the floor laughing very good !!!!
May 6, 2010 10:28 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
PASSION8MAN: The best thing is to just be yourself


that could be the problem too rolling on the floor laughing
May 6, 2010 10:36 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
Jacobsen
JacobsenJacobsenDundalk, Louth Ireland46 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!


I would also be confused if I spent hours on this sitelaugh
May 6, 2010 10:50 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
Jacobsen: I would also be confused if I spent hours on this site


im addicted to the games on here , currently dying with the flue , so cs is keeeping me from cracking up
May 6, 2010 11:04 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
starrysky: im confused !!

i get im request and mails !!!

if im interested i reply , if im not i dont.

if i dont reply i get called this and that !!!

yet if i reply just to be polite , they get the idea im interested and get annoyed when i tell them im not , some again reverting to name calling ect .

it seems like i cant win !!

damned if i do , damned if i dont !!!


I know the feeling. It has happened to me too, not just with IM but with mails as well. Mind you I never get called this that and the other, but it always feels awkward trying to judge what to say when you are just not interested. You want to be polite, without, as you say, them getting the wrong idea.
May 6, 2010 11:27 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
scriobhneoir: I know it's easier said than done, but try to ignore them. They are the ones with the problem.


i just laughed , didnt take any of it personally !!!

just quite shocked so see that agression in a man !!!
May 6, 2010 11:28 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
starrysky: i just laughed , didnt take any of it personally !!!

just quite shocked so see that agression in a man !!!


What can I say, some mothers do 'ave em.dunno
May 6, 2010 11:34 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
bozzyy
bozzyybozzyydublin, Dublin Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 322 Posts
confused
May 6, 2010 11:39 AM CST chatting on connecting singles
starrysky
starryskystarryskycork, Cork Ireland9 Threads 163 Posts
scriobhneoir: What can I say, some mothers do 'ave em.

haha .... love that progran actually !!!
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