Would you make the time?? (44)
nicki_love: If you are interested in someone, would you make time to spend chatting with them online? That is, if that's all the both of you could do at the present, wouldnt you want to spend a lot of time online with that person, trying to get to know him/her?
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
yea,i would prefere to spend my time wth my partner ,online or face to face Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
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nicki_love: If you are interested in someone, would you make time to spend chatting with them online? That is, if that's all the both of you could do at the present, wouldnt you want to spend a lot of time online with that person, trying to get to know him/her?
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
Yes I would, but its the same in a ''real'' relationship, you HAVE to make time for each other.....
and if I get chatting on line, then I want to meet them within a month, and if that was not possible, well then it means that I dont think the relationship would go anywhere..
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I don't think there is a straight-forward answer, though if one wants to get the most out of the relationship, they will certainly make the time 
People do lead busy life's and can depend on so many things, which you can only learn through contact, such as work patterns, family commitments, personal studies, hobbies/interests, (ie they have monthly club meetings).. Then you have the normal time and distance issues.. As I mention before, you can only get what you seek from a relationship from what you are prepared to put into it.. Good luck to you.
People do lead busy life's and can depend on so many things, which you can only learn through contact, such as work patterns, family commitments, personal studies, hobbies/interests, (ie they have monthly club meetings).. Then you have the normal time and distance issues.. As I mention before, you can only get what you seek from a relationship from what you are prepared to put into it.. Good luck to you.
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nicki_love: If you are interested in someone, would you make time to spend chatting with them online? That is, if that's all the both of you could do at the present, wouldnt you want to spend a lot of time online with that person, trying to get to know him/her?
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
You MAKE time.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
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DodgeBabe: You MAKE time.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
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nicki_love: If you are interested in someone, would you make time to spend chatting with them online? That is, if that's all the both of you could do at the present, wouldnt you want to spend a lot of time online with that person, trying to get to know him/her?
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
I am not interested if you don't have time to spend to get to know me. It will probably be the same after we get to know each other. I am not needy but I don't need anyone who has no time or cannot make time for me. I am ok by myself and alone.
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You find the time. You make the time. If needs be, you invent a time machine to give you the extra time. You can go bowling any night. But 'she' may not be there forever!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
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DodgeBabe: You MAKE time.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
Amen! Thank you.
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nicki_love: If you are interested in someone, would you make time to spend chatting with them online? That is, if that's all the both of you could do at the present, wouldnt you want to spend a lot of time online with that person, trying to get to know him/her?
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!
If one does not have time to meet online for a start, to get to know the other, then yes it might be, that in reality would be the same, depending on the situation, and what would be the reason for lack of time
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illu_66: You find the time. You make the time. If needs be, you invent a time machine to give you the extra time. You can go bowling any night. But 'she' may not be there forever!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
so true. thank you.
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illu_66: You find the time. You make the time. If needs be, you invent a time machine to give you the extra time. You can go bowling any night. But 'she' may not be there forever!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
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54xmax: If one does not have time to meet online for a start, to get to know the other, then yes it might be, that in reality would be the same, depending on the situation, and what would be the reason for lack of time
good question!
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DodgeBabe: You MAKE time.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
Even if you have to sit up and hang on the telephone until 3am in the morning, due to time differences.
If you cant be bothered to invest before you even meet, you might as well pack it in right away.
You hit it dead on Dodge... that's exactly what I'm trying to tell this guy that I've been chatting with online for the last 6 weeks.. he never has time, he's always working.. so what about in real life.. its obviously gonna be the same! No wonder he's divorced!
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nicki_love: You hit it dead on Dodge... that's exactly what I'm trying to tell this guy that I've been chatting with online for the last 6 weeks.. he never has time, he's always working.. so what about in real life.. its obviously gonna be the same! No wonder he's divorced!
Thanks!
Well, sounds like a No Go-er..
He's either telling the truth, and works so much he has no time for a relationship, which is no good; or
He's lieing, and is using work as an excuse to not invest in you, which is even worse.
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DodgeBabe: Thanks!
Well, sounds like a No Go-er..
He's either telling the truth, and works so much he has no time for a relationship, which is no good; or
He's lieing, and is using work as an excuse to not invest in you, which is even worse.
Well, sounds like a No Go-er..
He's either telling the truth, and works so much he has no time for a relationship, which is no good; or
He's lieing, and is using work as an excuse to not invest in you, which is even worse.
Agreed - Dump - move on......
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nicki_love: You hit it dead on Dodge... that's exactly what I'm trying to tell this guy that I've been chatting with online for the last 6 weeks.. he never has time, he's always working.. so what about in real life.. its obviously gonna be the same! No wonder he's divorced!
Yes no wonder he is divorced. I would divorce him too. He has to MAKE time, if not, forget him and move on. You are better off with someone who has time and time for you.
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54xmax: If one does not have time to meet online for a start, to get to know the other, then yes it might be, that in reality would be the same, depending on the situation, and what would be the reason for lack of time
Hey D.. Maybe he's writing a book..
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Well he wasnt the only prospect.. so it's just a matter of 'one down', ___ many more to go!!
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nicki_love: Hey D.. Maybe he's writing a book..
Yeah it may be that The only thing that maters, is for you to find THE RIGHT MAN, that will treat you like a lady ------ This thread is Archived ------
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Am I right in saying that if you are too busy to get to know someone, then if we were to get together, possibility exists that it could be the same? Opinions please!