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May 22, 2010 4:06 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? confused Please reply.
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May 22, 2010 4:17 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
trulee01: I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? Please reply.


Hi trulee..wave

In my personal experience, as soon as I stopped posting so much, as started communicating more by email, I found what I was looking for.

Also, I stopped "looking" really too; it kind of just happened.

Use CS as part of your search; dont rely on it, get too disheartened too quickly, and make sure you go out and about as well..

You may be suprised what occurs..

Good luck, and best wishes!bouquet
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May 22, 2010 4:23 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
You have mail waiting, ya goof!
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May 22, 2010 4:25 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
opentuit: You have mail waiting, ya goof!
OOPSblushing
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May 22, 2010 4:33 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
I've just recently saw you post
in the forums,have a li patience,
she's out there somewhere,best of luck. bouquet
In response to: I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? Please reply.
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May 22, 2010 4:35 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
trulee01: I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? Please reply.


I found what I was looking for but got my heart crushed .........LOVE SUCKSSSSSvery mad
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May 22, 2010 5:01 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
sultryash: I found what I was looking for but got my heart crushed .........LOVE SUCKSSSSS
I think love is the ultimate high.No I know it is. The crushed part however can be the ultimate low. Funny how that works huh?
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May 22, 2010 5:04 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Polarbutterfly: I've just recently saw you post
in the forums,have a li patience,
she's out there somewhere,best of luck.
Yea I'm still here. Thank you.grin
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May 22, 2010 5:14 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
casper1234
casper1234casper1234shannon, Clare Ireland2 Threads 14 Posts
new myself but there was someone that I wanted to contact
I'm shy
so I came up with a plan to contact all that had looked at my profile as a excuse to contact one that interested me
boy I paid for thatrolling on the floor laughing
still had some great laughs there are some fine folk here grin
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May 22, 2010 5:23 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
trulee01: Yea I'm still here. Thank you.

you are a fairly new member aren't you?,i haven't seen you on until lately,these ones that are keepers, you need to go get one and keep her then, have some patience, i've been at this 7 months now,only 1 date, and we all know how that went, back for more, i am gonna stay until ? whenever?applause
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May 22, 2010 6:14 PM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Validity: you are a fairly new member aren't you?,i haven't seen you on until lately,these ones that are keepers, you need to go get one and keep her then, have some patience, i've been at this 7 months now,only 1 date, and we all know how that went, back for more, i am gonna stay until ? whenever?
If its OK to say in the open You might just be one of those two.grin
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May 23, 2010 2:07 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
rneetype
rneetyperneetypeVancouver island, British Columbia Canada78 Posts
Buddy; Your stuck in a rut! take a class , any that interests you. This not only makes you more interesting ,you will learn some social skills. We all hope. yahoo for coco puffsbanana
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May 23, 2010 2:32 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
lardzeppelin
lardzeppelinlardzeppelinunknown, Clare Ireland10 Threads 3 Polls 300 Posts
Good morning T01...looks to me like there is a lady showing interest already, your not here long, nothing of worth ever happened overnight...I came here hoping to find a match, but have instead found a warm and welcoming community of on-line corispondants, not sure i'd leave the site even if i found someone now...stick with it pal, theres someone for everyone even though it at times it doesnt feel like it...and all that before breakfast...cheers...LZ..
trulee01: I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? Please reply.
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May 23, 2010 7:35 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
lardzeppelin: Good morning T01...looks to me like there is a lady showing interest already, your not here long, nothing of worth ever happened overnight...I came here hoping to find a match, but have instead found a warm and welcoming community of on-line corispondants, not sure i'd leave the site even if i found someone now...stick with it pal, theres someone for everyone even though it at times it doesnt feel like it...and all that before breakfast......LZ..
Yea buddy thanks.cheers I never was good at waiting. dunno I'm sure that this site will help with that.handshake peace
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May 23, 2010 7:48 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
trulee01: I have a good life and great friends. I ask myself, "Why am I alone at the computer hoping for an email reply" I suppose There's a chance I could find my soulmate here and that's what lures me in. I've had some bites.One or two were definitely keepers but my hook is empty. I don't want to give up but I can't stay stuck here either. How does one manage this? Please reply.



It depends what you really want and are looking for??....Some find it here, some dont, Take my Daughter for example....She just started out here as friends search, mailing, chatting and after a few months it got more serious, now she's off to get Married and with a great Guy from here, so Never give up...
You just dont ever know........dunno So just chill and make the most of it.....


JMO
bouquet
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May 23, 2010 8:33 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
trulee01: If its OK to say in the open You might just be one of those two.
wave
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May 23, 2010 8:43 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
How to manage frustration because of internet dating: take out one brain cell for every day that you are on a dating site. Soon you won't remember why you are here and it won't bother you. rolling on the floor laughing
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May 23, 2010 8:47 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
Big_John: How to manage frustration because of internet dating: take out one brain cell for every day that you are on a dating site. Soon you won't remember why you are here and it won't bother you.
John are you desensitized from this dating site?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 23, 2010 8:48 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Validity: John are you desensitized from this dating site?


I'm a very sensitive man...

Note to Self: Remain sensitive on the battle lines of love.
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May 23, 2010 8:53 AM CST WHAT TO DO?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
PollyWolly: It depends what you really want and are looking for??....Some find it here, some dont, Take my Daughter for example....She just started out here as friends search, mailing, chatting and after a few months it got more serious, now she's off to get Married and with a great Guy from here, so Never give up...
You just dont ever know........ So just chill and make the most of it..... JMO
Yea, I guess you have to plant some seed if you expect a harvest. That's good news. applause Thanks.grin
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