avoiding relationships (28)

May 23, 2010 4:40 PM CST avoiding relationships
trouble1
trouble1trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Posts
ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,
May 23, 2010 4:41 PM CST avoiding relationships
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


get a new girlfriend and cheat on her.


It'll make you feel better.
May 23, 2010 4:42 PM CST avoiding relationships
nitemare667
nitemare667nitemare667Claregalway, Galway Ireland12 Threads 1 Polls 1,845 Posts
Silentlust: get a new girlfriend and cheat on her.It'll make you feel better.
not the most tactful approach
May 23, 2010 4:42 PM CST avoiding relationships
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
laugh laugh dosent make you feel any better
Silentlust: get a new girlfriend and cheat on her.It'll make you feel better.
May 23, 2010 4:45 PM CST avoiding relationships
James_Pond
James_PondJames_PondDublin, Ireland124 Threads 23 Polls 2,417 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


talk about it. get to the root of it. there's an answer there, even if it's not straight away apparent
May 23, 2010 4:50 PM CST avoiding relationships
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Silentlust: get a new girlfriend and cheat on her.It'll make you feel better.


stop it you
May 23, 2010 4:51 PM CST avoiding relationships
trouble1
trouble1trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Posts
talk about it. get to the root of it. there's an answer there, even if it's not straight away apparent[/quote
cheers man
May 23, 2010 4:51 PM CST avoiding relationships
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


just get back out there, not every girl the cheating type, ive never ever cheated, you were just unfortunate.....
May 23, 2010 4:53 PM CST avoiding relationships
trouble1
trouble1trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Posts
i know, thanks alot everyone for your advice
May 23, 2010 4:54 PM CST avoiding relationships
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Silentlust: get a new girlfriend and cheat on her.It'll make you feel better.


It doesn't make you feel better but it does away with the punishing sense of injustice.
May 23, 2010 4:57 PM CST avoiding relationships
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
howlingwolf: It doesn't make you feel better but it does away with the punishing sense of injustice.


which it turn makes you feel better.


Don't question me.
May 23, 2010 4:58 PM CST avoiding relationships
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Silentlust: which it turn makes you feel better.Don't question me.


ok Boss!
May 23, 2010 4:58 PM CST avoiding relationships
billyod
billyodbillyodcork, Cork Ireland148 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


asking relationship advice on a singles dating site is strange lollaugh

here's my 2 cents worth.

take your time when you meet someone and really get to know them before you even think about getting serious.
dont leave your past hold you back but learn from it.we've all been in similar situations at 1 time or another. you just got to get over it and move on.

good luck with it m8
May 23, 2010 4:58 PM CST avoiding relationships
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
James_Pond: Nuala you are a LEGEND

Dr Phil's throne has been usurped


awww thanksblushing

but I say it as I see it....hug
May 23, 2010 5:00 PM CST avoiding relationships
trouble1
trouble1trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Posts
billyod: asking relationship advice on a singles dating site is strange lol

here's my 2 cents worth.

take your time when you meet someone and really get to know them before you even think about getting serious.
dont leave your past hold you back but learn from it.we've all been in similar situations at 1 time or another. you just got to get over it and move on.

good luck with it m8

cheers man
May 23, 2010 5:03 PM CST avoiding relationships
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Silentlust: Let's hug it out.


Oh Gawd, that Entourage is bloody nauseating. I often wonder though, who would win in a fight between entourage and The Office?
May 23, 2010 5:04 PM CST avoiding relationships
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
ladylumps: Listen to our Nuala, gems of wisdom.


Aww thanks S....You are an angel in your own right on here too!!!hug
May 23, 2010 5:08 PM CST avoiding relationships
trouble1
trouble1trouble1belfast, Antrim Ireland18 Threads 4 Polls 827 Posts
thanks everyonekiss
May 23, 2010 5:12 PM CST avoiding relationships
James_Pond
James_PondJames_PondDublin, Ireland124 Threads 23 Polls 2,417 Posts
trouble1: thanks everyone


You'll get through it bro peace cheers
May 23, 2010 5:25 PM CST avoiding relationships
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
trouble1: thanks everyone
why ddi they cheat dunno
do you know the reason yourself
if it wasnt your fault in any way well then they they just werent nice people
am i being to blunt my furry frienddunno
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