avoiding relationships (28)

May 23, 2010 5:40 PM CST avoiding relationships
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


Take it slow. Go on dates, nothing too heavy. Lunch dates, even, if you dont want to spend the whole evening together..

Most importantly, make sure you are ready to date again. Only you will know that, of course, but sometimes you also have to take a leap of faith and jump in.

thumbs up wine
May 23, 2010 8:22 PM CST avoiding relationships
SASSY2010
SASSY2010SASSY2010ENNIS, Clare Ireland3 Threads 106 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,



I'd would have to say I can only speak for myself and I hope most women... most women dont cheat.. you have beeen unfortunate and unlucky.. move on.. try and come to terms with it.. and live life to the full.. happy dating .. wish you all the best .. teddybear
May 24, 2010 4:36 AM CST avoiding relationships
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
trouble1: ever since my last break up i've been avoiding relationships/dating like i want to but i just keep making excuses. my last two girlfriends cheated on me badly so i think im just afraid of gettin hurt again its been a year and a half now so any advice would be great,


Is there a good way to be cheated on?confused
May 24, 2010 4:58 AM CST avoiding relationships
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
LusciousLibra: Ha haa... didn't think of that.


Yes, my sick little mind is working well this mornning!laugh
May 24, 2010 5:04 AM CST avoiding relationships
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Godsgift: Yes, my sick little mind is working well this mornning!


Sooo... who will you bring with you? Make sure he's handsome too wink
May 24, 2010 5:28 AM CST avoiding relationships
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
LusciousLibra: They're in the wardrobe with the halo and wings


Forget the halo and the wings. I'm lookin for the love of a bad woman!grin
May 24, 2010 5:58 AM CST avoiding relationships
Girlychick
GirlychickGirlychickDublin, Ireland2 Threads 142 Posts
a date does not have to be anythign pressurising, coffee, lunch or a simple walk you got nothing to loosecool

if a girl does ask you out you should be happy and then if she fails to show up its her loss!
May 24, 2010 9:56 AM CST avoiding relationships
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Godsgift: Forget the halo and the wings. I'm lookin for the love of a bad woman!


By bad you mean 'not frigid', right?
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