Seems the last couple of gents I have chatted with, after about 3 chats, if even that, they want to head right for the web cam and get naughty or have me watch.
I turn them down as I won't even use my web cam unless I know you very well or you are family and never nudity with anyone.
Guess I am from old school. If you can't feel it, touch it, smell it, look into the eyes of the other person it means nothing.
demonfairy: I agree sassy,whats the world coming to when you can't talk to some one,get to no them with out them trying to get naked or get you naked on cam
Ya know DF, Way back when I used to think if I wanted to keep him interested, even thought I would never do it, thought I needed to watch or he would get pissed.
Now I don't give a care. If he wants to get upset over something so stupid they he wasn't worth keeping anyway.
As most of you know I am having a wee bit of trouble trusting guys at the moment anyway after my last experience.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
sassy49senior: Seems the last couple of gents I have chatted with, after about 3 chats, if even that, they want to head right for the web cam and get naughty or have me watch.
I turn them down as I won't even use my web cam unless I know you very well or you are family and never nudity with anyone.
Guess I am from old school. If you can't feel it, touch it, smell it, look into the eyes of the other person it means nothing.
I didn't realise you went to the same school as me Sassy
Maybe we should set up a site called "Old School Re-Union" for all the decent singles, who actually want a real relationship
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
sassy49senior: Seems the last couple of gents I have chatted with, after about 3 chats, if even that, they want to head right for the web cam and get naughty or have me watch.
I turn them down as I won't even use my web cam unless I know you very well or you are family and never nudity with anyone.
Guess I am from old school. If you can't feel it, touch it, smell it, look into the eyes of the other person it means nothing.
Do you think this site has too many "dirty old men"?? Personally, I think they are harmless, for the most part. What danger is an old fart who can't get it up? All of us get there one day.
Englishman55: I didn't realise you went to the same school as me Sassy
Maybe we should set up a site called "Old School Re-Union" for all the decent singles, who actually want a real relationship
Hi English If there ever is such a site I will be one of the first to join
So very true, I do want a relationship, but will take my time this time, even if I croak before it happens The ol' heart can only stand being bruised so many times and eventually starts ticking quite a bit slower.
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I turn them down as I won't even use my web cam unless I know you very well or you are family and never nudity with anyone.
Guess I am from old school. If you can't feel it, touch it, smell it, look into the eyes of the other person it means nothing.