Judgemental (21)
i have never met u u sem to be a good person i have no judgments against u we was just havin some fun sorry if i offeneded ya
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aww Linda i did a thread like this once and i am sorry to see that people will be judgemental till the end of time its ashamed that people dont get to know you your a sweet lady and i am proud to call you a friend
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Hon, I was not meaning you at all. We were having fun and
I love laughing. Just was talking about people in general.
I love laughing. Just was talking about people in general.
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You have always said nice comments, I cannot even imagine you saying anything negative..having someone pass judgement is always hurtful.
I know, like many others, that you are beautiful.
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Angel....
I know, like many others, that you are beautiful.
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well look at it this was if they dont like ya piss on them u dont need someone who brings u down!!we like ya!!!
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I am new here but I think you are a wonerful and very warm person sis::hug:
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being judgemental is the biggest thing this world has sometimes seems thats all they have. i live life and have learned to take how and what people say and do about me like a grain of salt their psyches are lacking the compassion and general love needed to actually be a living spirit and there fore are not worth yours or my time 
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I never judge others. Might disagree with some of there idea's but thats just human nature. If we all thought the same thoughts what a boring world we would live in.
And while I'm here hello sis #1 and sis #2 ...
And while I'm here hello sis #1 and sis #2 ...
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Angel, Thank you too hon. You also are a special lady,
we have more in common than some know. This thread was
not necessarily about me, but people in general, judging
before they give a person a chance. Take Care Hon, Linda
we have more in common than some know. This thread was
not necessarily about me, but people in general, judging
before they give a person a chance. Take Care Hon, Linda
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Hi my dear sister, Love you girl and thank you for giving
me a very memorable few days. Will miss you when I go home.
Thanks for taking the new pic of me and helping me post it. 
me a very memorable few days. Will miss you when I go home.
Thanks for taking the new pic of me and helping me post it.
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You got that right!!!
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sevenforyou, Thank you for such kind words.
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Right on baby sister. You have to be nice to me because I
am your ride home. I love you hon.
am your ride home. I love you hon.
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rcar2, But we must look beyond those insecurities and
try to find that good soul that needs to be let out.
Take Care and thank you, Linda
try to find that good soul that needs to be let out.
Take Care and thank you, Linda
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I think the red was very pretty on you...
Even stated that in a post...
Your very sweet and nice.
I don't know why people judge.
But I am not fond of that way
of thinking personally...
Don't let it break your warmhearted
spirit...
Even stated that in a post...
Your very sweet and nice.
I don't know why people judge.
But I am not fond of that way
of thinking personally...
Don't let it break your warmhearted
spirit...
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Hi carebear, Yes you did tell me I looked good in red.
You are a kewl lady. My spirit is alive and well.
Thank you hon. Linda
You are a kewl lady. My spirit is alive and well.
Thank you hon. Linda
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I think its sometimes because its easier to see the flaws in others than ourselves .... we all seem to have the tendency to want to be "right" and of course most of the time we aren't, but we sometimes don't know that until after we are enlightened. Or we choose to ignore things and continue on anyways because its easier to follow the same path that we have traveled before then to venture in a new direction.
I think that the best approach is to have an open mind because generally the advice that others try to "impose" on us is from their observations and they can sometimes see things in a way in which we cannot. I think its about learning as well how to give advice when people actually ask for it instead of imposing it upon others. As well - filtering out what works for us and what doesn't and also trying to discern why someone is saying something in the first place and their reasons and motives behind it. Setting up boundaries as well for people in our lives that are generally critical is vital to our emotional and mental wellbeing - sometimes you need to get rid of them and surround yourself with people who are encouraging and supportive but who also empower you to become a better person.
I think that the best approach is to have an open mind because generally the advice that others try to "impose" on us is from their observations and they can sometimes see things in a way in which we cannot. I think its about learning as well how to give advice when people actually ask for it instead of imposing it upon others. As well - filtering out what works for us and what doesn't and also trying to discern why someone is saying something in the first place and their reasons and motives behind it. Setting up boundaries as well for people in our lives that are generally critical is vital to our emotional and mental wellbeing - sometimes you need to get rid of them and surround yourself with people who are encouraging and supportive but who also empower you to become a better person.
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Thank you langley, Sometimes we need to step out of our
comfort zone and try to find how those who seem to be so
filled with anger truly feel.
comfort zone and try to find how those who seem to be so
filled with anger truly feel.
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cut, do we not all bleed the same color blood. We are, no
not one, perfect. If we look beyond the person we portray
to be and try to find the inner soul we will find most have
endearing qualties. I come on at times as being the crazy
lady in red and that is OK with me. But those of you who
have taken time to get to know me through mails, will find
a lady with a tender heart. Someone who does not like to
see those she is so fond of being on the outs with one another.
You all have a special place with me and even those who seem
to want to tell me off everytime we chat, I do not judge.