Advice please (32)

Jun 30, 2010 6:55 PM CST Advice please
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
royester24: maybe you need to sort out this problem with this man in private
and not on an open forum. so that he may not become the object
of insults. and to be past judgement on by people who dont even know him. something to think about.



I think he's pretty safe unless he decides to post a defence on this thread.

For a newbie poster, she has a good grasp of the rule of not naming names thumbs up
Jun 30, 2010 7:00 PM CST Advice please
cbsunset
cbsunsetcbsunsetMayo, Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
LusciousLibra: I think he's pretty safe unless he decides to post a defence on this thread.

For a newbie poster, she has a good grasp of the rule of not naming names


Thanks Lucious Libra I wouldn't do that
Jun 30, 2010 7:00 PM CST Advice please
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
LusciousLibra: Well, at least we agreed eh?





On that we are ..I hate talking about somebody that's not here to defend themselves ,but he does seem to have some trust issue and would appear to be very controlling dancing
Jun 30, 2010 7:02 PM CST Advice please
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
boredguy: On that we are ..I hate talking about somebody that's not here to defend themselves ,but he does seem to have some trust issue and would appear to be very controlling


thumbs up I agree again.
Jun 30, 2010 7:04 PM CST Advice please
judd32
judd32judd32mullingar, Westmeath Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
plus the op's profile already says that she is looking for friends/hang out....should be no problem for himdunno
Jun 30, 2010 7:09 PM CST Advice please
royester24
royester24royester24carrickmacross, Monaghan Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 740 Posts
LusciousLibra: I think he's pretty safe unless he decides to post a defence on this thread.

For a newbie poster, she has a good grasp of the rule of not naming names


i agree the thing that worries me sometimes we only hear one
side of the story. thats the sad part. sometimes to defend your
self causes more hurt. it is better to take it on the chin and
walk away. i just hope this isnt going to become a common thing
on the forums .some things are better to remain private.less
hurt on both sides.hug
Jun 30, 2010 7:09 PM CST Advice please
cbsunset
cbsunsetcbsunsetMayo, Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
Thanks for all advice/comments handshake
Jun 30, 2010 7:12 PM CST Advice please
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
LusciousLibra: I agree again.






Can we get a room now so ..... devil rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 30, 2010 7:16 PM CST Advice please
cbsunset
cbsunsetcbsunsetMayo, Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
royester24: i agree the thing that worries me sometimes we only hear one
side of the story. thats the sad part. sometimes to defend your
self causes more hurt. it is better to take it on the chin and
walk away. i just hope this isnt going to become a common thing
on the forums .some things are better to remain private.less
hurt on both sides.


Dont worry wont happen from me again, I can see where your coming from. Would delete the post if i could.
First time on forums
Jul 1, 2010 3:59 AM CST Advice please
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
cbsunset: Hi new to the forums so I'll try to keep up !! Just want your advice/opinion on something. Have friends on here that Im in contact with, which are great people. Got chatting to someone else for awhile and seemed to get on, we were even going to meet but he turned cold because he found me online. I go on here still to chat to them as I dont want to loose them as friends.
He took it that I was chatting up others and i shouldnt be doing that if i was interested in him.
Even if I was chatting? I haven't even met him yet; and dont know him that long.
Am I not seeing it from his point of view ???


Well if he found you on line that would mean he was on line too ????? dunno dunno So dont see what his problem is Id be telling him to take a chill pill but I also agree with Royster we're only getting one side to this.
Jul 1, 2010 4:00 AM CST Advice please
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
cbsunset: Hi new to the forums so I'll try to keep up !! Just want your advice/opinion on something. Have friends on here that Im in contact with, which are great people. Got chatting to someone else for awhile and seemed to get on, we were even going to meet but he turned cold because he found me online. I go on here still to chat to them as I dont want to loose them as friends.
He took it that I was chatting up others and i shouldnt be doing that if i was interested in him.
Even if I was chatting? I haven't even met him yet; and dont know him that long.
Am I not seeing it from his point of view ???

That's ridiculous.
Sure I'm seeing a lad for nearly a year now and I'm always on, chatting here, he is well aware of this.
Only for meeting up with a few of the gang on a couple of occasions since I moved to Dublin, I would have felt incredibly isolated and friendless. The banter makes my boring days so much less so.
Sounds a bit jealous, if I'm honest.
Jul 1, 2010 4:50 AM CST Advice please
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
you are not his personal possession , keep your freedom of choice and as the gang says

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