Bad experiences meeting with people? (21)

Jul 2, 2010 11:06 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
EmmaIrl
EmmaIrlEmmaIrlAthlone, Offaly Ireland4 Threads 82 Posts
Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?
Jul 2, 2010 11:21 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?


YES

YES

And YES
uh oh
Jul 2, 2010 11:23 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
PASSION8MAN
PASSION8MANPASSION8MANLIMERICK, Limerick Ireland90 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
Ah dont want to even think about it blues

Yes

never met anyone from this site tho conversing
Jul 2, 2010 11:23 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
bjk68
bjk68bjk68Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 890 Posts
ladylumps: YES

YES

And YES


Hell yeah... met up for a coffee and was talked AT for the next 3 hours.......didn't want to be rude and get up and leave....... wont happen againdoh
Jul 2, 2010 11:35 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?




No
NO




and No ....grin only every met good fun loving people banana
Jul 2, 2010 11:39 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?


Hi Emma,

Wouldn't say a bad experience, just a couple of extremely needy people! Scarey enough for me to run for the hills laugh
Jul 2, 2010 11:44 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
EmmaIrl
EmmaIrlEmmaIrlAthlone, Offaly Ireland4 Threads 82 Posts
WOW ok - so anybody have good experiences? Nobody seems to have any testimonials ...
Jul 2, 2010 11:51 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
EmmaIrl: WOW ok - so anybody have good experiences? Nobody seems to have any testimonials ...

i went out with a girl for nearly 18 months who i met online but its a lot more difficult to find someone now
Jul 2, 2010 11:55 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
EmmaIrl: WOW ok - so anybody have good experiences? Nobody seems to have any testimonials ...


Ah yeah, more good than bad on here in my experience..not that i've met loads! I've met one of my now best mates on here...i'm sure he's lurkin about somewhere! laugh
Jul 2, 2010 11:56 AM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
MimiKate: Ah yeah, more good than bad on here in my experience..not that i've met loads! I've met one of my now best mates on here...i'm sure he's lurkin about somewhere!

thats what this site is good for and thats makin friendshandshake
Jul 2, 2010 12:00 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
blipper2000: thats what this site is good for and thats makin friends


Indeedy wave
Jul 2, 2010 12:04 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
EmmaIrl
EmmaIrlEmmaIrlAthlone, Offaly Ireland4 Threads 82 Posts
Thats good - I like to be friends first anyway blushing
Jul 2, 2010 12:07 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
Easyfrank
EasyfrankEasyfrankAthlone, Westmeath Ireland1 Threads 7 Posts
About two years ago, I met a woman on another site. We emailed back and forth several times. Then spoke by phone several more. I arrainged to take her to dinner at a great restaurant in Sligo. I arrived at her home by taxi, flowers in hand at 7:00 PM. I immediately suspected that she had a few drinks in her. Taxied to the restaurant and I ordered a Coke. She ordered a bottle of wine. She finished off the bottle ever before the food came. When the food came she ordered another bottle of wine. By 9:30 she was pissed out of her head. I got a taxi for us to get her home.....she PASSED OUT in the taxi! Needless to say, no second date! wow doh
Jul 2, 2010 12:25 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
navbabe
navbabenavbabenavan, Meath Ireland41 Threads 2 Polls 2,800 Posts
Easyfrank: About two years ago, I met a woman on another site. We emailed back and forth several times. Then spoke by phone several more. I arrainged to take her to dinner at a great restaurant in Sligo. I arrived at her home by taxi, flowers in hand at 7:00 PM. I immediately suspected that she had a few drinks in her. Taxied to the restaurant and I ordered a Coke. She ordered a bottle of wine. She finished off the bottle ever before the food came. When the food came she ordered another bottle of wine. By 9:30 she was pissed out of her head. I got a taxi for us to get her home.....she PASSED OUT in the taxi! Needless to say, no second date!
OMG thats awful.... hug
Jul 2, 2010 12:28 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
navbabe
navbabenavbabenavan, Meath Ireland41 Threads 2 Polls 2,800 Posts
well me personally...i've met some really nice guys online...and on here ive met some great friends, male and female...dont really get dates off here tho...maybe cos they read my posts and think im a bit of a nut job rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing angel angel angel angel angel angel angel angel
Jul 2, 2010 12:28 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
reddimond
reddimondreddimondlaois, Kildare Ireland5 Threads 309 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?


Yes hence taking a break from dating lol
Jul 2, 2010 12:38 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
bikki1974
bikki1974bikki1974ennis, Clare Ireland4 Threads 121 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?


lol havent been so lucky as yet...blues heart wings
Jul 2, 2010 1:07 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
singlepringle101
singlepringle101singlepringle101westmeth, Westmeath Ireland42 Threads 539 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?
omg i have ! met a guy here it wasa good few month ago, we were txtn great as if we knew each other ten when we met we hardly spoke , there were alot of silances!! hope that dosnt happen again
Jul 2, 2010 1:09 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
singlepringle101
singlepringle101singlepringle101westmeth, Westmeath Ireland42 Threads 539 Posts
Easyfrank: About two years ago, I met a woman on another site. We emailed back and forth several times. Then spoke by phone several more. I arrainged to take her to dinner at a great restaurant in Sligo. I arrived at her home by taxi, flowers in hand at 7:00 PM. I immediately suspected that she had a few drinks in her. Taxied to the restaurant and I ordered a Coke. She ordered a bottle of wine. She finished off the bottle ever before the food came. When the food came she ordered another bottle of wine. By 9:30 she was pissed out of her head. I got a taxi for us to get her home.....she PASSED OUT in the taxi! Needless to say, no second date!
woah! that was awfull!!
Jul 2, 2010 1:23 PM CST Bad experiences meeting with people?
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
EmmaIrl: Just wondering if anybody has every had any bad experiences meeting up with people?

Over even just bad dates? Stalkers ?


Absolutely no bad experiences although I have had a few not so great dates but the majority of guys I have gone out with have been very nice but we werent suited one way or another.

I have made some great friends on here though.

I think if you feel like going out when someone asks you, take a chance. If you are a bit nervous keep the date short, e.g. meeting for a coffee, meet in the daylight and in a busy, public place so you can get a feel for the person before going somewhere more quiet (maybe) on a 2nd date. If the person scares you or puts you off in any way you will feel safe.

Of course, a lot of people dont show how psycho they are until you have known them a while but that happens in real life as much as meeting people on the internet.
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