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Men are just as confusing to women..... we just operate differently on an emotional and physical level.... and our needs and motivations can be different.......

At your age you're still dating girls, and as young as they are they don't know what they want yet. If you plan on making the Air Force your career you might be better off finding a military brat who knows what she's getting into by dating you.

As we get older though, some of us get it figured out and don't play the games anymore, but there are some (both men & women) who never get tired of playing games and continue to hurt people.

This is just one man's humble opinion, and it is based solely on part of the OP's question. I'm tired of going out of my way to do the impossible to make someone happy and then end up getting hurt...

I found a long time ago that women who are worth being in a relationship with are just as eager to make you happy as you are them. They will not ask you to do the impossible unless they are willing to do the same. They are full of compromise and suggestions when actually dealing with a truly impossible situation. If they want it to work, they will help make it work.

It's up to us to determine who we are talking to before we become too blinded with feelings and lose the ability to see what others can.

As far as complexity goes, that's a two way street. But again if it's a relationship worth having, both people will slow down, communicate, and try to reach a mutual understanding.

Seems to me your looking for a bit of a sympathy vote here. Relationships end thats a fact of life and it happens for a variety of reasons. It happens to everyone me included but you have to keep trying until you find the right person. moaning about it on a dating site wont help you find a partner in life.

i'd neither confirm nor deny the allegations

I will tell you this we can't read woman but the can read us I will say it like Jeff Foxworthy did this is what all men think about every second of the day, I'd like a beer and to see something naked lol

well some women thinks men are confusing too. its just that you use your head more than your heart. and i guess u have to balance it. dont read women like books rather understand them. u dont have to please them rather enjoy spending time with each other.. all u have to do is balance it.. sometimes "too much" is bad

hi usaf , sorry i go through the same thing you can have long distance relationship you dont know if they playing head games or they really into you talking behind your back in so on, what they say come's around ,,, bite the bullet lol