rizlared: I have been a member for a few years now and am amazed at how some people take it all so seriously, this is a dating site with a public forum attached, not someone’s private living room.
Why is it so hard to understand that everyone has an opinion, it is of no consequence what that opinion is, you either agree, disagree or sit on the fence.
By becoming embroiled in name calling and personnel insults, surely this is just showing the readers a side of you that maybe should remain hidden, I accept it can be hard sometimes to not get involved, most members have at sometime had such a disagreement, and voiced their opinion in an aggressive manner, but recently the attacks have been getting worse and worse. An opinion is just that, if you don’t agree, just put forward a valid response explaining your view, why the hostility?
This site used to be a fun place; somewhere we could go to and have a laugh and a chat. Now it just seems to be for those who want attention and antagonistic posts.
Are we taking it all too seriously??
I've not time to read through all of this thread.
All I can say is that some people on here do take the forums far too seriously. They need to get a grip on real life instead
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Why is it so hard to understand that everyone has an opinion, it is of no consequence what that opinion is, you either agree, disagree or sit on the fence.
By becoming embroiled in name calling and personnel insults, surely this is just showing the readers a side of you that maybe should remain hidden, I accept it can be hard sometimes to not get involved, most members have at sometime had such a disagreement, and voiced their opinion in an aggressive manner, but recently the attacks have been getting worse and worse. An opinion is just that, if you don’t agree, just put forward a valid response explaining your view, why the hostility?
This site used to be a fun place; somewhere we could go to and have a laugh and a chat. Now it just seems to be for those who want attention and antagonistic posts.
Are we taking it all too seriously??
All I can say is that some people on here do take the forums far too seriously. They need to get a grip on real life instead