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we live in hope!! think the worst thing you can do is let them see its getting to you
anniebaby: is there any way its possible to have an ex and still b able to get on wit them
mine is playing dirty at min and its really getting to me have i been to nice when he has the cheek to threaten me
advice
mine is playing dirty at min and its really getting to me have i been to nice when he has the cheek to threaten me
advice
Well 'get on with' might be too strong in my case but we pass each other as they say. It depends on the issues, whether you are legally separated and have law on your side etc.
L1977C: we live in hope!! think the worst thing you can do is let them see its getting to you
ill second that, we thrive on it, ignore him, that really pisses me off
trouble1: ill second that, we thrive on it, ignore him, that really pisses me off
na dont think ignoring always work but def standing up to them does whether its male or female
have not spoke to mine in 11 months, she turned children again me and now have to do battle through the courts, don't rise to it,
skyblue43: Well 'get on with' might be too strong in my case but we pass each other as they say. It depends on the issues, whether you are legally separated and have law on your side etc.
legally separated and i'd say law on my side wit threats like dat
skyblue43: I don't want to sound smart arsed but really if its as serious as it sounds its quite obvious that the only advice you should be taking is from a solicitor not from the forums of a dating site.
ya i know but just wondering if its just something dat ex's do male or female
and i am getting other advice
anniebaby: ya i know but just wondering if its just something dat ex's do male or female
and i am getting other advice
and i am getting other advice
Ah it gets nasty at times for most ex couples from time to time I think....
mushh: have not spoke to mine in 11 months, she turned children again me and now have to do battle through the courts, don't rise to it,
Know how you feel mate i have an 8 year old daughter, my ex wife keeps telling me she dont want to go out with me looks like i,m gonna have to go through the courts as well 
My ex tries that too. He used to do it all the time until I told him out straight to get a life and stop the mind games cos they don't work. He wasn't impressed but he seldom tries them now.
I think he was under the impression that I was weak and would be a good little girl and do what he told me to.
I've heard men say that women play mind games. In my experience men are 10 times worse for it.
I think he was under the impression that I was weak and would be a good little girl and do what he told me to.
I've heard men say that women play mind games. In my experience men are 10 times worse for it.
Omg.. So i am not the only one with a troublesome ex...Mine knows the only way to hurt me is trough the kids so he does it every-time... But i never retailate no matter how much he upsets me believe me its not ever worth it....
serenas: Omg.. So i am not the only one with a troublesome ex...Mine knows the only way to hurt me is trough the kids so he does it every-time... But i never retailate no matter how much he upsets me believe me its not ever worth it....
i never do but this time i might have to i cant sit and say noting but will do it the right way wit a cool head
im goin through bad times wit mine at the moment too and its so bad that i HAD to stop him from taking her im up in court now soon and im dreading it have never been in any kind of court in my life i really dont know wat to expect but i say if its gettin that bad get on to ur solicitor and if u cant there are free solicitors that sit go and speak to one of them but dont take it u dont have to and u dont deserve it
In response to: is there any way its possible to have an ex and still b able to get on wit them
mine is playing dirty at min and its really getting to me have i been to nice when he has the cheek to threaten me
advice
mine is playing dirty at min and its really getting to me have i been to nice when he has the cheek to threaten me
advice
a little bit of advice for you if you want it.
if he is threatening you by txt msg,keep them and show them to his friends and family.i guarentee you the threats will stop once they see what he is doing.worked for me any way
yes it is me and my ex get on well and we have joint custody of the children but she leads her life and i lead mine that way every one is happy you or her should not use the kids as pawns as when they get older they will make there own chice in life and they will be more happy seeing you both get on and not fighting each outher i hope you sort it out for your childrens fucher
annie....
i've had these problems....
make sure you go to your town clerk and get full guardianship over your kid(s) so he doesn't have a leg to stand on...i'm assumin that you weren't married....
he either abides by your rules or you take him to court. you are the childs number 1 carer and parent
It would be really nice to get on with yoru ex, but you have to be cruel to be kind i think....that is what i have had to do....and now thank god, since beginning of the year, i haven't had any hasstle from him!...
if you want to pm me, that is fine.
take care of yourself, and don't let him be a bully.
n.
i've had these problems....
make sure you go to your town clerk and get full guardianship over your kid(s) so he doesn't have a leg to stand on...i'm assumin that you weren't married....
he either abides by your rules or you take him to court. you are the childs number 1 carer and parent
It would be really nice to get on with yoru ex, but you have to be cruel to be kind i think....that is what i have had to do....and now thank god, since beginning of the year, i haven't had any hasstle from him!...
if you want to pm me, that is fine.
take care of yourself, and don't let him be a bully.
n.
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mine is playing dirty at min and its really getting to me have i been to nice when he has the cheek to threaten me
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