Am I so bad??? Please help me to see if I am so bad a person . (132)
His loss love not yours. Go and find a decent man who will respect and take care of you! Not your fault so don't think that it is. I'm sure you've started to realise that he's in the wrong and not you after all the replies on here? Good luck kiddo. 
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LILLYLADY:
Don't be surprised if he winds up in a psychiatric facility at some near point in the future. He's well on his way there.
Don't be surprised if he winds up in a psychiatric facility at some near point in the future. He's well on his way there.
All it will take is two corn kennels.
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it might be a dumb question but why you put up,with his BS for 2 years 
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WOW... Girls like that live up there in UK ? 
Sorry to hear about all you have gone through lady and I guess it's best that you lost the chap.
But.. MAAAAN.. I can't believe it.
You try do that to any women of my country and they call a hit on you without beat ! shezzz.. women in my country are effin monsters I tell you
Sorry to hear about all you have gone through lady and I guess it's best that you lost the chap.
But.. MAAAAN.. I can't believe it.
You try do that to any women of my country and they call a hit on you without beat ! shezzz.. women in my country are effin monsters I tell you
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lindsey1651: Thank you all for your reply it means alotto hear from others what they think. I feel it takes some telling from others to see how i have had a lucky escape. He was married 4 times and his last 2 marriages never lasted anylonger than 1yr each and he is still divorcing his last one now.
Married 4 times,2 only lasting a year,still divorcing the 4th
Alarm bells should have been ringing long before 2 years of wasted time and energy.We don't chose who we fall in love with but we can chose either to stay and suffer or get a life.You are an attractive lady and you will get past this.I haven't read your profile but hope that you have good family and friends to support you.
Get out there and say hello to the world.There really are some lovely people out there more deserving of you.
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bestbefore: Married 4 times,2 only lasting a year,still divorcing the 4th Alarm bells should have been ringing long before 2 years of wasted time and energy.
We don't chose who we fall in love with but we can chose either to stay and suffer or get a life.You are an attractive lady and you will get past this.I haven't read your profile but hope that you have good family and friends to support you.
Get out there and say hello to the world.There really are some lovely people out there more deserving of you.
We don't chose who we fall in love with but we can chose either to stay and suffer or get a life.You are an attractive lady and you will get past this.I haven't read your profile but hope that you have good family and friends to support you.
Get out there and say hello to the world.There really are some lovely people out there more deserving of you.
Can I be # 5 ? Please
Maybe a week or so ??
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jeepers: Can I be # 5 ?
Please
Maybe a week or so ??
Please
Maybe a week or so ??
Are you looking at me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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zdeathangelz:
it might be a dumb question but why you put up,with his BS for 2 years
it might be a dumb question but why you put up,with his BS for 2 years
No,
not dumb at all, Z.
This question begs for the 2nd side of the story.
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Laura25: No,
not dumb at all, Z.
This question begs for the 2nd side of the story.
not dumb at all, Z.
This question begs for the 2nd side of the story.
As always.
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lindsey1651: I have been seeing this Jewish guy for over 2yrs and he last night decided after 2yrs he doesnt want me anymore as I am not obediant enough for him. His excuses were that Jewish women have to be house proud and cook and care for family,never answer the man back even if he starts the fight I have to shut up.
I always apologise for his fights he never does. He said he didnt like the way i used a blanket and although i made the bed he didnt like it when he opened the cupboard and the blanket fell out and he had to fold it properly to make it fit. then I forgot to eat 2 corn on cob kernels as he shouted me to go out so i forgot them in the pan and they rotted. he said i dont think enough and although i am good i am not good enough. i caught him in march on a dating site ... and he was arranging to meet women we talked about this i was devestated and i forgave him but always doubted his commitment to me after that. now i feel so stupid and unattractive and used and know now that i was wasting my time he has been married 4 times and last two marriages only lasted 1yr each then divorced. He is jewish i am christian and was converting and changing my whole life to be with him and not expecting anything back in return. please tell me am i a bad person is all of it my fault that i didnt think carefully enough about putting things away?
He has broken my heart and only shows me now that Jews are very unreasonable people and they dont care how they hurt peoples feelings and also very money orientated as he said my job isnt good enough for us to live a great lifestyle so he needs someone compatible. Please help me feel better and to stop myself from crying and make me feel this is for the best.
please no nasty negative comments cos my heart is broken into a thousand peices right now.
Thank you.
I always apologise for his fights he never does. He said he didnt like the way i used a blanket and although i made the bed he didnt like it when he opened the cupboard and the blanket fell out and he had to fold it properly to make it fit. then I forgot to eat 2 corn on cob kernels as he shouted me to go out so i forgot them in the pan and they rotted. he said i dont think enough and although i am good i am not good enough. i caught him in march on a dating site ... and he was arranging to meet women we talked about this i was devestated and i forgave him but always doubted his commitment to me after that. now i feel so stupid and unattractive and used and know now that i was wasting my time he has been married 4 times and last two marriages only lasted 1yr each then divorced. He is jewish i am christian and was converting and changing my whole life to be with him and not expecting anything back in return. please tell me am i a bad person is all of it my fault that i didnt think carefully enough about putting things away?
He has broken my heart and only shows me now that Jews are very unreasonable people and they dont care how they hurt peoples feelings and also very money orientated as he said my job isnt good enough for us to live a great lifestyle so he needs someone compatible. Please help me feel better and to stop myself from crying and make me feel this is for the best.
please no nasty negative comments cos my heart is broken into a thousand peices right now.
Thank you.
ok this may be harsh but I will say this... and yes its some of it is postive
You have some serious self esteem & confidance issues prior to this relantionship break up this may sound harsh AS YOU tolorated such behaviour!! You are an indivdual that deserves respect, he has no right to judge you based on ''certain behaviours that he wanted'' you are who you are you & regardless of the efforts/changes that you make YOUR TRUE PERSONALITY WILL COME FOURTH
And one day it would have been you that figured out that you weren't happy as you couldn't be your true self no body is perfect
No body here can make you happy other then youself, I can't sit here and tell you your great and that you'll read all this lovely posistive comments cause you deserve it!
LEARN FROM THIS
YOU CANNOT PUT THE ONUS ON OTHERS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, THEREFORE YOU WILL ALIENATE THOSE AROUND YOU, YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LIKE AND LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN MOVE ON IN YOUR LIFE
FORGET THE PAST MOVE FORWARD AND LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF AS TRULY NO ONE CAN UNTIL YOU LIKE YOURSELF
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Take it as a lesson ...
You deserve better , be strong and move on ...
You deserve better , be strong and move on ...
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People are human. They leave food in the pan. They drop towels and blankets. They leave caps off toothpaste. None of this makes them bad...simply human.
He would have given you a serious anxiety disorder over time trying to deal with his crazy (and impossible) demands, as well as severely damaging your self esteem. Continued stress like this also impacts your physical health, which can be hard to recover.
There is no question you did the right thing as he is not even beginning to address his problems. I feel sorry for his next victim.
You got out of a very bad situation!