i met a lovely lad last thursday, since then we have been together quite a bit and he took me to his sisters wedding, where i met all his family and i thought everything was fine he lives in a flat with two gay lads and asked me to help him find a flat, which i have done, i was supposed to be going out with him in a hour and hes just text me and said hes confused and can we be friends why??? whats he confused about? is he gay:? he was the perfect gentleman so i dont understand
Perhaps he got nervous that your relationship was moving too fast.
You said that you and him had been together quite a bit AND you met his family? That's alot for meeting a week ago.
He needs some "space" so give him some. If you leave him alone, he may start to wonder why you are not chasing him and where are you?? Then he will track you down. That's how I see it - hope you feel OK
Karine, I believe if its meant to be it will happen. I'm still waiting...but I still believe I'll find someone. Don't rush things and take them slow when you meet someone..its meant to be it will happen..
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
even though it was his idea sounds like he wants to pause a minute and make sure this relationship is really what he wants. Like Arabella says give him that space,dont call or write. he will either come around or you will know for sure the relationship is not what he wants.
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since then we have been together quite a bit and he took me to his sisters wedding, where i met all his family and i thought everything was fine
he lives in a flat with two gay lads and asked me to help him find a flat, which i have done,
i was supposed to be going out with him in a hour and hes just text me and said hes confused and can we be friends
why???
whats he confused about? is he gay:?
he was the perfect gentleman so i dont understand