The "non-negotiable" (66)

Sep 2, 2010 9:40 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it sigh

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Sep 2, 2010 9:42 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
JamesyMc
JamesyMcJamesyMcDerry, Donegal Ireland3 Threads 74 Posts
Orla2010: I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it


From your photo your are only 3ft tall, most men are taller than thatlaugh
Sep 2, 2010 9:43 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
Orla2010: I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it


Cankles...... just can't handle seeing them, let alone touching themlaugh
Sep 2, 2010 9:43 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
JamesyMc: From your photo your are only 3ft tall, most men are taller than that


Ah here, when the feathers are up I'm at least 5'6" laugh
Sep 2, 2010 9:46 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
I should say ... that when I say taller than me I actually mean at least 6" blushing I'm a bad girl I know and that possibly makes me sound very shallow .... but it really is my one NN uh oh

Tall guys just make me go weak at the knees grin
Sep 2, 2010 9:56 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
Orla2010: I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it


thumbs up id have to agree orla,im 5ft 8" and just couldnt go out with someone much shorter than me,i went on couple of dates with a shorter guy and it just felt wrong bending down to kiss him,i felt like a giantlaugh really any guy from 5ft 9" up would do....he doesnt necessarily need to be a six footer! but apart from that i dont think id rule anything else out im not too picky! yay
Sep 2, 2010 9:57 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
Orla2010: I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it


Must not have a ballbag...uh oh
Sep 2, 2010 9:59 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
sugar77: id have to agree orla,im 5ft 8" and just couldnt go out with someone much shorter than me,i went on couple of dates with a shorter guy and it just felt wrong bending down to kiss him,i felt like a giant really any guy from 5ft 9" up would do....he doesnt necessarily need to be a six footer! but apart from that i dont think id rule anything else out im not too picky!


Not too fussy???? I'm going on operation transformation, what not to wear, going to the barbers, getting tattooed and wearing builders trousers just to pass muster!!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 2, 2010 10:03 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Jellybeen
JellybeenJellybeenSouth Dublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 458 Posts
Orla2010: I feel as strongly as the next person that personality is as attractive and valuable in a mate as good looks but .... I also think that for all of us, if we are being honest, there is at least one physical "non-negotiable" when it comes to finding a partner. What is yours?

Mine is that a guy has to be taller than me. Can't help it

I prefer a guy that's taller than me and yet I seem to always end up with guys smaller / the same height.
In fairness, they have they're uses, as they are at the right height for certain things...... rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 2, 2010 10:05 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
sugar77: id have to agree orla,im 5ft 8" and just couldnt go out with someone much shorter than me,i went on couple of dates with a shorter guy and it just felt wrong bending down to kiss him,i felt like a giant really any guy from 5ft 9" up would do....he doesnt necessarily need to be a six footer! but apart from that i dont think id rule anything else out im not too picky!


Hey Sugar ... the 6 foot thing does make me sound bad but I can't help it ... I could settle for 5'11" though blushing I think the hankering after a tall guy thing is actually written in my DNA or something! I love hugs and for me the best hugs are from guys that are bigger and broader than me love smitten

I'm actually close enough to 5'7" ... although I have 5'6" on my profile. I would love to be your height handshake
Sep 2, 2010 10:11 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
Jellybeen: I prefer a guy that's taller than me and yet I seem to always end up with guys smaller / the same height.
In fairness, they have they're uses, as they are at the right height for certain things......


confused blushing help

In my defence ... I have absolutely no preferences when it comes to size in the Linford Christie department .... as long as it's not a micro-w*lly (they do exist, it's not an urban myth!) or very big (blues wow thumbs down

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Sep 2, 2010 10:11 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
Jellybeen: I prefer a guy that's taller than me and yet I seem to always end up with guys smaller / the same height.
In fairness, they have they're uses, as they are at the right height for certain things......


confused blushing help

In my defence ... I have absolutely no preferences when it comes to size in the Linford Christie department .... as long as it's not a micro-w*lly (they do exist, it's not an urban myth!) or very big (blues wow thumbs down

wave
Sep 2, 2010 10:14 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Jellybeen
JellybeenJellybeenSouth Dublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 458 Posts
Orla2010: In my defence ... I have absolutely no preferences when it comes to size in the Linford Christie department .... as long as it's not a micro-w*lly (they do exist, it's not an urban myth!) or very big (

Well, if you're with a 6ft plus guy, the chances are, you won't be disappointed. grin
Sep 2, 2010 10:16 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
skyblue43: Not too fussy???? I'm going on operation transformation, what not to wear, going to the barbers, getting tattooed and wearing builders trousers just to pass muster!!!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ahhhhh stay as you are sweetie....look good too me.....wink btw...what height are ya?laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:18 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
sugar77: ahhhhh stay as you are sweetie....look good too me..... btw...what height are ya?


Taller than 5'9 and headin in for that shin stretching operation tomorrow! By the way this thread is going its not the only thing will need stretching laugh laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:19 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
Jellybeen: Well, if you're with a 6ft plus guy, the chances are, you won't be disappointed.


Seriously ... I would run for the hills if I saw a big one. One of my exes was HUGE .... and the first time I saw it I was like "You needn't think THAT is coming anywhere near me!"

blushing laugh laugh laugh laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:22 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Jellybeen
JellybeenJellybeenSouth Dublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 458 Posts
Orla2010: Seriously ... I would run for the hills if I saw a big one. One of my exes was HUGE .... and the first time I saw it I was like "You needn't think THAT is coming anywhere near me!"

Was that the end of a beautiful relationship?? laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:25 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
Orla2010
Orla2010Orla2010Dublin, Ireland110 Threads 32 Polls 2,167 Posts
Jellybeen: Was that the end of a beautiful relationship??


Hmmmmmmm .... it wasn't the end. The rest is too explicit for a daytime thread blushing laugh wink


Seriously though, I would waaaaaay rather a smaller one than a big one. Far too much pressure on guys to measure up (ahem) in that department. As long as it's pretty!!!!! help laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:26 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
skyblue43: Taller than 5'9 and headin in for that shin stretching operation tomorrow! By the way this thread is going its not the only thing will need stretching


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing quality over quantity i say!laugh
Sep 2, 2010 10:28 AM CST The "non-negotiable"
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
sugar77: quality over quantity i say!


Pleads the fifth.....
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