Foreshadowing and Bridging ( Archived) (13)

Sep 17, 2006 2:06 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Foreshadowing and bridging are great for written works of Literature. Foreshadowing is when the author is giving you hints of what is to come but the message is not completely received until you read the end of the work. It is really apparent in "Whodunit" books. Bridging helps to connect paragraphs by putting something into the new paragraph from the prior paragraph. This way the reader is not lost in what the author is trying to accomplish. The new paragraph may be a continuation of a prior thought or idea. Take these two concepts of foreshadowing and bridging into account. Have you got to the point of considering how past relationship might have gradually went bad? At what point to you think the bridge was burned so bad that it was past the point of no return.
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Sep 17, 2006 2:13 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Yes, and if you think the bridge got burned so bad that it's past the point of being salvaged.. you're either riding that fine line, or it already is I think.
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Sep 17, 2006 2:22 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I agree with that. It can be like the instrument gage oil light turning red. By the time is makes you aware of it the damage has already be done.wave
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Sep 17, 2006 2:27 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Personally, I can't blame you. thumbs up A divorce can be a good thing if there is nothing to salvage.comfort
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Sep 17, 2006 2:30 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
I know the feeling, hon...

and, thank GAWD you got out!

Not so sure repair applies to some situations... Something would have had to be in some type of working order to break and be able to repair...

My ex is one, too... He'll have to repair himself... don't think it'll happen. But, that his own story to tell, eh?

hug
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Sep 17, 2006 2:32 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Good point. Do you think some throw in the towel in too soon in a match that has no winner? Do you think there should be something instead of, "do death do us part"? Something more realistic.
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Sep 17, 2006 2:35 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Good question.

I think if two people intend to make a life together...then, the intention would be for life?

Now, again, in some situations such as violence, and total lack of integrity? No...

There are lines winding among the black and white issues... gray.
That's the area when we decide to take responsibility for ourselves...
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Sep 17, 2006 2:42 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I can understand that. At some point it is no longer "us" but "me". I believe the original intention can change. "Me" meaning all that is "mine", of course that being decided by the courts.wave
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Sep 17, 2006 2:45 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Have you ever had the question asked of you, "Do you still love me?" and had to wonder to yourself if you did?
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Sep 17, 2006 2:49 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
hey you =o)


nahh, I'm not talking courts, or binding papers...

I'm talkig personal integrity.

If one has it, the other issues should follow along... may not be easy, but again, that's life.

Who changes the intent, and why? It's not out of the blue. Something real causes one or the other to hit a wall...or, personal blank spot.
There are no easy fixes in life.

If you've tried, and the other refuses to help in the repair, then that leaves you with yourself...
Not talking a day, or two, or even a month... some changes take awhile...
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Sep 17, 2006 2:58 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Great point. Who changes the intent? Yeah, for me a personal blank spot. The change from "we" to "me" can be a real cultural shock. You have helped me to understand that before though by knowing the "better half" can be a misnomer. Of course used to do everything with the other then that changed it can be like "half" of you is gone.
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Sep 17, 2006 3:01 PM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
If they are the "better half" and you get a divorce then what is left, lol?
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Sep 21, 2006 11:16 AM CST Foreshadowing and Bridging
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
That was the point behind our "better-half" discussions...

Like before; each is whole. What better for a relationship than two whole people?

While we sometimes lose someone, it is only a peice of our heart and soul that fades...NOT disappears. It's there, wounded, hurt, angry...
Then, one day the bruising is cleared and there you are... shining...
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