Foreshadowing and bridging are great for written works of Literature. Foreshadowing is when the author is giving you hints of what is to come but the message is not completely received until you read the end of the work. It is really apparent in "Whodunit" books. Bridging helps to connect paragraphs by putting something into the new paragraph from the prior paragraph. This way the reader is not lost in what the author is trying to accomplish. The new paragraph may be a continuation of a prior thought or idea. Take these two concepts of foreshadowing and bridging into account. Have you got to the point of considering how past relationship might have gradually went bad? At what point to you think the bridge was burned so bad that it was past the point of no return.
Yes, and if you think the bridge got burned so bad that it's past the point of being salvaged.. you're either riding that fine line, or it already is I think.
Good point. Do you think some throw in the towel in too soon in a match that has no winner? Do you think there should be something instead of, "do death do us part"? Something more realistic.
I can understand that. At some point it is no longer "us" but "me". I believe the original intention can change. "Me" meaning all that is "mine", of course that being decided by the courts.
nahh, I'm not talking courts, or binding papers...
I'm talkig personal integrity.
If one has it, the other issues should follow along... may not be easy, but again, that's life.
Who changes the intent, and why? It's not out of the blue. Something real causes one or the other to hit a wall...or, personal blank spot. There are no easy fixes in life.
If you've tried, and the other refuses to help in the repair, then that leaves you with yourself... Not talking a day, or two, or even a month... some changes take awhile...
Great point. Who changes the intent? Yeah, for me a personal blank spot. The change from "we" to "me" can be a real cultural shock. You have helped me to understand that before though by knowing the "better half" can be a misnomer. Of course used to do everything with the other then that changed it can be like "half" of you is gone.
That was the point behind our "better-half" discussions...
Like before; each is whole. What better for a relationship than two whole people?
While we sometimes lose someone, it is only a peice of our heart and soul that fades...NOT disappears. It's there, wounded, hurt, angry... Then, one day the bruising is cleared and there you are... shining...
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