Clarification upon somethings. ( Archived) (24)

Okay, I’ve been on this website for nearly a month, and I’ve seen some pretty valid banning material.

1. Excessive Forum posting of nonsense: Could you at least take a look through the Forums and narrow out all the useless and utterly pointless forums; Such as, Happy_Wealthy Talks about doing his friends mother… Is this really needed in OUR forums? No….

2. “All members are adults”: If we’re all adults why can’t we show this? Language privileges are considered adult. Now I know the difference between using it in a jokingly manner and telling someone in the same post that it’s intended like that. And Of course telling someone off is utterly rude and well not tolerated. But if you call us adults why the restrictions? I mean this is your website and your rules I understand this but they seem to be contradicting themselves a bit, almost as if your stating we’re teenagers on a computer site.

3. Someone who starts a particular “Bad Forum” should be the one punished not those trying to make right. Example Venusenvy… She was simply defending a type of life style as the Original poster was damn near bashing Gypsy’s for who they were and their beliefs; Now to my knowledge this site doesn’t allow “Bashing” or any “Wrong” doing to a Type of belief or Race. So why punish those trying to back that of a belief and life style when they were defending it?

4. SPAM: it’s a big part of your website indeed, I understand this IS a FREE website to use but there can be limitations to constrict that of spam. Maybe add a feature that prevents Random people from talking to you, Like say “Block any and all emails from people in which you have not contacted or talked to within a 1 month bias time”

5. Stalkers and Multiple accounts, Is there any chance you could put more requirements into your Account setup features to disarm those who wish to make multiple profiles and spam the forums with constant annoyances?

Eh I consider one guy who consistently stalks me only to get some kind of reaction to my posts.. It’s getting really annoying, Can’t report him because he hasn’t said anything too the extreme of offensiveness but he does tend to follow me around in the forums… could you look into having a rule that states when asked to leave a person alone you do so; other wise you do get banned??? I would appreciate it.

Not trying to make up a stir but considering the fact that someone nice was banned due to a bad thread I kind of wanted to state and ask a couple of things; please don’t take this offensively or against the rules I’m simply asking and telling not judging or demanding.

Very well said and you raise a lot of valid points, though the one advantage the mods do have is that they can see all messaging content and thereby have a fuller picture than the rest of us have. Hope it generates us some answers though..

21 minutes and counting... Anyone here? I thought this was a place for Q&A,

Guess I'll leave this forum alone until I recieve a reply... geesh

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it is valid but sadly it's unfare to those who don't do anything but try to protect people’s integrities only to be banned while there are a dozen other things that can be frowned upon and should be settled on first hand rather than second hand.

I feel very strong about the valid points in which I've given and if the mods don't see it that way and decide to ban me for one reason or another I can't help but

I'm not trying to cause an uprise against the mods, I am however wanting justice to be done on the wrongful people not the right! that isn't how a gunshot victim is handled with a gunner...

the gunmen goes to jail while the victim gets nursed back to health that's the logic.

Unfortunately, you may have to wait quite a while for a reply as the main task of the mods is to generate income, thereby concentrate on advertising and ensuring all parts are working correctly.

Also, I am not 100% sure what time frame they work to but believe they are based in the USA and am not even sure how many staff they require to operate this site. No doubt they have other queries yo answer from other members throughout the world and all this takes time.. so patience will be required, just view it as training for that day we all meet that special person..

Can you add an ignore button in the forums.. so we can ignore someones posts?

I don't understand.... what would such a button do? I mean, if we want to ignore a post, we just ignore it.

Nuuu the button would allow for a continuos ignore, a full armed metal jacket from spam and ignorance!