This question just pull out in my mind after my talked with a friend. A friend of mine said hope you can find right man?, then suddenly cross of a question in my mind, is there really Mr or Mrs Right that we're looking for?. And I said we never know if she or he is Mr or Mrs Right for us until we find in our self grow old & still together. Cos some of people in marriage said "I found right man or girl in my" life but then when separate we some of will say " he or she isn't right for me". I said to my friend that looking for Mr or Mrs Right could be not really we're looking for, maybe more the other words somebody who feel comfort we you next to him or her because can fill each of weakness for our partner. Cos by during of relationship or marriage we still learn each other (our partner), by being good friend for our partner not just he or she as our husband or wife but because we feel comfort & enjoy beside he or she.
Just give me other view about this if you have different opinion, will be so thanks if you can share it.
You're right, someone, who seems so perfectly right to start with, can turn into the totally wrong person in our eyes in a very short period of time; just like love can turn into hate very quickly. It's all about our own perception and expectations.
I'm looking for someone, who's not perfect but loveable, and who will think the same of me. Everyone has faults, but a person, who feels the need to overlook them in their partner instead of treasuring them, is on the wrong track in my opinion.
invinciblemuse: You're right, someone, who seems so perfectly right to start with, can turn into the totally wrong person in our eyes in a very short period of time; just like love can turn into hate very quickly. It's all about our own perception and expectations.
I'm looking for someone, who's not perfect but loveable, and who will think the same of me. Everyone has faults, but a person, who feels the need to overlook them in their partner instead of treasuring them, is on the wrong track in my opinion.
Seem sometimes its also happen with some of the people too.
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And I said we never know if she or he is Mr or Mrs Right for us until we find in our self grow old & still together. Cos some of people in marriage said "I found right man or girl in my" life but then when separate we some of will say " he or she isn't right for me".
I said to my friend that looking for Mr or Mrs Right could be not really we're looking for, maybe more the other words somebody who feel comfort we you next to him or her because can fill each of weakness for our partner. Cos by during of relationship or marriage we still learn each other (our partner), by being good friend for our partner not just he or she as our husband or wife but because we feel comfort & enjoy beside he or she.
Just give me other view about this if you have different opinion, will be so thanks if you can share it.
Thanks