Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner? ( Archived) (7)

Oct 17, 2010 12:09 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
This question just pull out in my mind after my talked with a friend. A friend of mine said hope you can find right man?, then suddenly cross of a question in my mind, is there really Mr or Mrs Right that we're looking for?.
And I said we never know if she or he is Mr or Mrs Right for us until we find in our self grow old & still together. Cos some of people in marriage said "I found right man or girl in my" life but then when separate we some of will say " he or she isn't right for me".
I said to my friend that looking for Mr or Mrs Right could be not really we're looking for, maybe more the other words somebody who feel comfort we you next to him or her because can fill each of weakness for our partner. Cos by during of relationship or marriage we still learn each other (our partner), by being good friend for our partner not just he or she as our husband or wife but because we feel comfort & enjoy beside he or she.

Just give me other view about this if you have different opinion, will be so thanks if you can share it.

Thanks
teddybear
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Oct 17, 2010 12:28 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
hmmm...i am not looking for Mr.Right...meaning i am not looking for any specific type or personality.

In my opinion there are two things necessary to have an enjoyable relationship: love and communication

Love makes you enjoy and accept the person for what he/she is, the communication fills the gaps between two different individuals
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Oct 17, 2010 4:33 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
lucynad: hmmm...i am not looking for Mr.Right...meaning i am not looking for any specific type or personality.

In my opinion there are two things necessary to have an enjoyable relationship: love and communication

Love makes you enjoy and accept the person for what he/she is, the communication fills the gaps between two different individuals


Good the point & indeed that have too.
handshake thanks for already sharing it
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Oct 17, 2010 4:34 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
mysticsage1
mysticsage1mysticsage1Edgewood, New Mexico USA2 Threads 1 Polls 164 Posts
I'm looking for mrs wrong , I can't seem to find mrs right .
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Oct 17, 2010 4:48 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
mysticsage1: I'm looking for mrs wrong , I can't seem to find mrs right .


I think nobody perfect huh
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Oct 17, 2010 5:08 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
You're right, someone, who seems so perfectly right to start with, can turn into the totally wrong person in our eyes in a very short period of time; just like love can turn into hate very quickly. It's all about our own perception and expectations.

I'm looking for someone, who's not perfect but loveable, and who will think the same of me. Everyone has faults, but a person, who feels the need to overlook them in their partner instead of treasuring them, is on the wrong track in my opinion.
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Oct 17, 2010 5:18 PM CST Do you think Mr or Mrs Right really you're looking for as your partner?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
invinciblemuse: You're right, someone, who seems so perfectly right to start with, can turn into the totally wrong person in our eyes in a very short period of time; just like love can turn into hate very quickly. It's all about our own perception and expectations.

I'm looking for someone, who's not perfect but loveable, and who will think the same of me. Everyone has faults, but a person, who feels the need to overlook them in their partner instead of treasuring them, is on the wrong track in my opinion.


Seem sometimes its also happen with some of the people too.

hug
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