Laura25: No, it is not OP's profile -- it's an open public forum,
and he is not "just saying what he wants" -- he is wondering why he is being ignored and asking for help.
Equiya, as many others in this forum was kind enough to offer this help.
no, i said in another thread that i am being ignored because of my children with whom i lived and i proved it. the proof was good but i was adviced that i should have gone through that. I wasn't asking for help, i only want to bring to the thought that persons on here mainly women are not into finding an honest man as they claim but someone who can make a feather bed.
plainlyjune: so if women were not picky... you'd be over your head with women?
picky is good but pick what you say you seek and not a package. there were only two perfect men who came in this life and both are dead. the rest of us are just human.
cute_yashar: they were doing it before sanctions on iraq iraq was third most export country in the world
the difference now is that you pay them as workers and steal the oil but before the war and before sanctions ( for un_existed mess weapons that you claimed and did't find any) before the sanctions and war worker were working for iraq not for you the oil was for themselves not stolen by AMERICA
no, i said in another thread that i am being ignored because of my children with whom i lived ...
True, a never-married-with-no-children girl half your age is not a match to you, hence *they* most likely will ignore you in the same very manner as you ignore girls with children.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Sampe1967: ... I wasn't asking for help, i only want to bring to the thought that persons on here mainly women are not into finding an honest man as they claim but someone who can make a feather bed.
No? That's how most of us interpreted this thread title: "why so picky????" -- asking to help you to understand *WHY*.
Sampe1967: ... i only want to bring to the thought that persons on here mainly women are not into finding an honest man as they claim but someone who can make a feather bed.
That is a false statement.
Many CS ladies found an honest man with whom they are very happy.
Sampe1967: I must admit that when i just joined this site, i wrote to some one who was out, but when i reread, i found confusion in her profile that brought on the mistake. Four of whom i now correspond with, understanding that we are going nowhere, have been quite pleasant, but stating that we are just internet friends, this was what i refer to as searching your person. now, if all you wrote makes sense, how do you explain 22yo seeking 20 to 70 yos or profiles taht shows "marrital staus =any children =any, religion =any etc. and only women do that. a few days ago someone started a thread, asking what women seek most as important in a man, and i predicted that the hypocrital result would show honesty as number one and so it was. honesty is never number one on most people's list and you know it. but you all say so. I don't have a problem marrying a 45 year old woman but can she have children or has she had her lot? I prefer one who has not started yet because i do love and want children around me at all times. what can you say about your profile that's honest? and if i tell you my religious reason for not wanting one that was married already, you'll never agree. ok, so there is no God. why do i want to or why would i even consider getting married ever again?
i'm no woman and i would also like honesty. for the same reasons i would imagine. to see if we are a match or if we don't match. that's a good thing if there ever was one. and it's good your honest. that way you can find what your looking for. keep it up. if not here, somewhere.
Sampe1967: Ladies have you ever written to a man and don't get a reply? how often? Gentle men, how often do you get back replies when trying to contact these women on CS? I think most persons here are not looking. If they were, why don't they even try to communicate to atleast search your personallity: try to get to know you. they just ignore you and that's the worst type of regection.
Sampe most of us on here are from different country and are hard to get to without a cash flow my dear
misscherylxo: wow 150 , who would want a man that look up 150 , that is like going out with 150 females in real life wwow. since i been on here only contacted one maybe meeting, others were from around the world i tell them not interested they are to far they are mostly friends' wow 150 is alot what you looking for one night stand jeash.. can't find one or married if you looking for one night stand
suggasugga: Sampe most of us on here are from different country and are hard to get to without a cash flow my dear
I know but if you want the person there can be ways to get there half the world away. i now chat with someone i met on the msnmailing system but she lives in ghana. 30 years very pretty no children and never married. if we grow deeper tp where i think she will be ok and she thinks so too i will get her here.
scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
The only responses I seem to get on this site is from " 28 yo great looking ladies with a private yahoo account and think " I am great guy, we fall in love and get maried, yes,""
Tnpseudonym: Example: Me I became good friends with a guy on here last year, as many regulars may remember. He was young, retired, rich but I honestly did not care. He made me laugh, a lot. But our personalities just didn't belong in the same geometric location. We made a good go of it though and I constantly refused his insistance to spend money on me or my kids only thing I accepted was gas (was a lot of driving) and I considered that only proper. We parted amiably. imho it seems like someone is 'jaded'.
scoutmaster: The only responses I seem to get on this site is from " 28 yo great looking ladies with a private yahoo account and think " I am great guy, we fall in love and get maried, yes,""
you get em too?
don't you just love their broken english & misplaced words
why else would a woman of 22 want a man of 70? who most likely already has past family life or lives? is it not because he already gone t5hrough the strugles? and if that same 70yo don't have more than honesty, he couldn't shake her hand. is it not proven in everyday life where a man tells a woman "good morning" and she doesn't answer? i know of one event happened in my town where a pretty girl with a baby walked by a group of guys, who were calling out to her and she pretended that they didn't exist, but five minutes later she came back down the road, tired and worn out, searching for the baby's shoe that they were trying to stop her for in the first place that had fallen off fallen off fallen off
Please do NOT alter my post anymore when you quote it.
Sampe1967:
why else would a woman of 22 want a man of 42? who most likely already has past family life or lives? is it not because he already gone t5hrough the strugles? and if that same 70yo don't have more than honesty, he couldn't shake her hand. is it not proven in everyday life where a man tells a woman "good morning" and she doesn't answer? i know of one event happened in my town where a pretty girl with a baby walked by a group of guys, who were calling out to her and she pretended that they didn't exist, but five minutes later she came back down the road, tired and worn out, searching for the baby's shoe that they were trying to stop her for in the first place that had fallen off fallen off fallen off
The only other thing a girl half man's age would have to do with this man is
to offer to help them cross the street, like a good scout.
That's what people are trying to tell you all along in this thread --
Laura25: Please do NOT alter my post anymore when you quote it. The only other thing a girl half man's age would have to do with this man is
to offer to help them cross the street, like a good scout.
That's what people are trying to tell you all along in this thread --
you are chasing a wrong category,
hence no replies.
So women get extremely generous now because they want so bad to make sure that old people get across the streets that they write a profile with them in mind. I chatted with a 21 yo in july who presented herself as a daughter of God and it got to where we even met in person, but i didn't find the daughter of God that she described. moreover my required years goes to 34 why are you picking out 22, only as a way to cover the stupidity of the whole thing. also i pointed out to you, required ages from females that says "70" almost three and an half times their age and you're comparing that to "twice?" ha, i find that bias.
MetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA875 posts
Sampe1967: Ladies have you ever written to a man and don't get a reply? how often? Gentle men, how often do you get back replies when trying to contact these women on CS? I think most persons here are not looking. If they were, why don't they even try to communicate to atleast search your personallity: try to get to know you. they just ignore you and that's the worst type of regection.
If they dont answer its there loss.Who cares..lol i dont.
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and he is not "just saying what he wants" -- he is wondering why he is being ignored and asking for help.
Equiya, as many others in this forum was kind enough to offer this help.