why so picky???? (117)
You know guys, no matter how open this forum is, it doesnt mean that we are going to look down on people or put them down. Whatever you say to the person, reflects what kind of personality you are. We can be honest but i believe we dont have to be harshed with the words that we are using.
And someone is saying that people who are in the church are doormat?????....i just cant get that point?...If you are not God fearing then be it but judging people who go in the church are doormat, i believe, that is bad enough. It is in the Bible and also in the golden rule, DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU... and in..........
Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will
be judged. and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you.
That is not only Biblical as some dont believe in the Bible, but you cant deny the golden rule. I just hope that even this is an open forum, but we dont have to be harshed with our words. I guess that possible if we try to practice that and so to become a habit.
And someone is saying that people who are in the church are doormat?????....i just cant get that point?...If you are not God fearing then be it but judging people who go in the church are doormat, i believe, that is bad enough. It is in the Bible and also in the golden rule, DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU... and in..........
Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will
be judged. and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you.
That is not only Biblical as some dont believe in the Bible, but you cant deny the golden rule. I just hope that even this is an open forum, but we dont have to be harshed with our words. I guess that possible if we try to practice that and so to become a habit.
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lovingheart2: You know guys, no matter how open this forum is, it doesnt mean that we are going to look down on people or put them down. Whatever you say to the person, reflects what kind of personality you are. We can be honest but i believe we dont have to be harshed with the words that we are using.
And someone is saying that people who are in the church are doormat?????....i just cant get that point?...If you are not God fearing then be it but judging people who go in the church are doormat, i believe, that is bad enough. It is in the Bible and also in the golden rule, DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU... and in..........
Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will
be judged. and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you.
That is not only Biblical as some dont believe in the Bible, but you cant deny the golden rule. I just hope that even this is an open forum, but we dont have to be harshed with our words. I guess that possible if we try to practice that and so to become a habit.
And someone is saying that people who are in the church are doormat?????....i just cant get that point?...If you are not God fearing then be it but judging people who go in the church are doormat, i believe, that is bad enough. It is in the Bible and also in the golden rule, DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU... and in..........
Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge or you too will be judged.
For in the same way you judge others, you will
be judged. and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you.
That is not only Biblical as some dont believe in the Bible, but you cant deny the golden rule. I just hope that even this is an open forum, but we dont have to be harshed with our words. I guess that possible if we try to practice that and so to become a habit.
Amen bro.
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morgan5: Maybe I misunderstood
Hi Morgan, It was me who said he wanted a god fearing doormat. Two different things. God fearing is self explanatory, the doormat bit was my interpretation of what he expects from a future partner. 
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Things happen exactly the way they are supposed to. If she doesn't get back to you she was never going to be the one anyway. Silence says alot 
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Sampe1967: Ladies have you ever written to a man and don't get a reply? how often? Gentle men, how often do you get back replies when trying to contact these women on CS? I think most persons here are not looking. If they were, why don't they even try to communicate to atleast search your personallity: try to get to know you. they just ignore you and that's the worst type of regection.
Your profile is very conservative and it's better for you to search for a woman on some Christian dating site (there are plenty of them on the internet).
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This topic has been worn out,people don't reply for a lot of reasons,its there choice.
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jahzah: Things happen exactly the way they are supposed to. If she doesn't get back to you she was never going to be the one anyway. Silence says alot
And silence on CS says it all - NOT interested.
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Sampe1967: since June i have written to over 150 persons 10 replied and i mean some of them only did once and they don't ask anything. i get replies like "thanks"
That is just the nature of the beast, so to speak. It is a numbers game. Don't take it personally. Just keep fishing.
I have found this same sort of pattern on any site I have ever been on.
Ironically, the last couple people I dated, I happened to run into in everyday life, and not on a site, despite being on here for quite a while.
Don't hold your breath - you might turn blue! Just roll with it- it will happen eventually.
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me? so picky! nah...i am not picky at all! i only talk to beautiful ladies with big, dark eyes with long eye lashes, long legs, long dark and silky hair, full lips, and nice tan complexion. does that make really picky?
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Laura25: And silence on CS says it all - NOT interested.
I LIKE
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Laura25: And silence on CS says it all - NOT interested.
not interested in me! big deal! i will simply move to find another cutie who is way too prettier than you
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mnowsa: not interested in me! big deal! i will simply move to find another cutie who is way too prettier than you
I am sure your will, mnowsa. Much prettier and much more compatible too.
Beats me why some people are trying to chase someone who is not a good match to them.
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Sampe1967: Ladies have you ever written to a man and don't get a reply? how often? Gentle men, how often do you get back replies when trying to contact these women on CS? I think most persons here are not looking. If they were, why don't they even try to communicate to atleast search your personallity: try to get to know you. they just ignore you and that's the worst type of regection.
lol. funny you should mention this. so far there seems... to me... with the exception of a couple, nothing but man haters. all seem to think it's ok to dictate how you SHOULD act. how you should be. blah blah blah. a guy can't put up a simple post without getting rode hard and put away wet. really it's fine with me i guess. show me who you are so i know who to avoid. really, who wants to know people or connect with them that see negative in EVERYTHING? i mean sure some things need addressing but unless it's. '' i love flowers that bloom in the spring and raindrops on rose petals'' it get's attacked. as far as contacting women? lol. done used up my area. waiting for some new ones to join. i came here to check it out and see what's up. but so far, like you, i'm seeing it's better to just keep hitting on flesh and blood. that cost's more but at least we can connect, lol.
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I must admit that when i just joined this site, i wrote to some one who was out, but when i reread, i found confusion in her profile that brought on the mistake. Four of whom i now correspond with, understanding that we are going nowhere, have been quite pleasant, but stating that we are just internet friends, this was what i refer to as searching your person. now, if all you wrote makes sense, how do you explain 22yo seeking 20 to 70 yos or profiles taht shows "marrital staus =any
children =any, religion =any etc. and only women do that. a few days ago someone started a thread, asking what women seek most as important in a man, and i predicted that the hypocrital result would show honesty as number one and so it was. honesty is never number one on most people's list and you know it. but you all say so. I don't have a problem marrying a 45 year old woman but can she have children or has she had her lot? I prefer one who has not started yet because i do love and want children around me at all times. what can you say about your profile that's honest? and if i tell you my religious reason for not wanting one that was married already, you'll never agree. ok, so there is no God. why do i want to or why would i even consider getting married ever again?
children =any, religion =any etc. and only women do that. a few days ago someone started a thread, asking what women seek most as important in a man, and i predicted that the hypocrital result would show honesty as number one and so it was. honesty is never number one on most people's list and you know it. but you all say so. I don't have a problem marrying a 45 year old woman but can she have children or has she had her lot?
I prefer one who has not started yet because i do love and want children around me at all times. what can you say about your profile that's honest? and if i tell you my religious reason for not wanting one that was married already, you'll never agree. ok, so there is no God. why do i want to or why would i even consider getting married ever again? inkognito: picky?
not quite sure, but is it possible, that you ignore their Ladies match info, you contacted?
I mean, I'm blessed, you never will contact me, as I'm, in my high age of 41 years are WAAAAAAAY too old for you, with your 43 years
but I cannot really imagine, that a young Lady of 22 years, is looking here for a surrogate daddy to marry
so when you ignore their match info, why should they care about to reply?
or some are only here for the forums, like me...
you are looking for marriage
maybe you should read the profiles more properly and contacting only those of whom the criteria concurs with you
not quite sure, but is it possible, that you ignore their Ladies match info, you contacted?
I mean, I'm blessed, you never will contact me, as I'm, in my high age of 41 years are WAAAAAAAY too old for you, with your 43 years
but I cannot really imagine, that a young Lady of 22 years, is looking here for a surrogate daddy to marry
so when you ignore their match info, why should they care about to reply?
or some are only here for the forums, like me...
you are looking for marriage
maybe you should read the profiles more properly and contacting only those of whom the criteria concurs with you
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so if women were not picky... you'd be over your head with women?
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venusinsilk: I read your profile and it seems to me you're looking for a god fearing doormat, Not a wife. jmo.
and what in my profile caused that type of judgement? are you hurt because i didn't write to you instead
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equiya: I agree with everything you have written here in the above posting.
I get emails all the time from men who I can tell never bother to read my profile because they are exactly what I don't want. I even write in my profile that if your message goes into my filterbox you should ask yourself why and go back to read my profile well.
Now, what could possible be wrong with me letting out my personal info?I get emails all the time from men who I can tell never bother to read my profile because they are exactly what I don't want. I even write in my profile that if your message goes into my filterbox you should ask yourself why and go back to read my profile well.
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equiya: thank you.
you think God will have mercy on me? I am not Godfearing and I don't like men who are Godfearing.
so, how about a man who punches you in the face, tells you endless expletives carry on an affair with your mother in the same house besides the 13 children all over town and is most times drunkyou think God will have mercy on me? I am not Godfearing and I don't like men who are Godfearing.
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