Does anyone agree, that some men are on here to string along women and then move on, i have found that some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here to string along women and then move on, i have found that some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.
I havent dated anyone from this site but that must be maddening..
I don't respond to those that want any of that info right away....usually scammers......I take my time to get to know them before I give them any info at all.....usually getting to know them in the forums helps.....
and to the world of internet dating.Don't let it worry you,you will learn to laugh it off and just move on.Wait till they do show up and you ask who are you, Just look at it as and adventure,meet in a public place,just for a drink of some sort,its easier to get away if there not the right one.
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here to string along women and then move on, i have found that some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.
Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.
If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.
Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.
But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far).
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here to string along women and then move on, i have found that some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.
I don't understand why anyone would do this, but you are better off without them, just forget em and hope the next one is honest,
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here to string along women and then move on, i have found that some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.
invinciblemuse: Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.
If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.
Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.
But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far).
none of that, she just gae me chocolate and seduced me
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Brit_singleagainTell u if i like u, Ohio USA112 Posts
Brit_singleagainTell u if i like u, Ohio USA112 posts
invinciblemuse: Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.
If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.
Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.
But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far).
Thats how I do it too. I think any red flags will manifest in a few weeks. I been talking to a guy for a couple weeks and its just now got to the point we have exchanged Yahoo info. I will not give up my number for awhile yet and he respects that. Im not sating hes dishonest, but I have to think of me and my child!
Brit_singleagain: Thats how I do it too. I think any red flags will manifest in a few weeks. I been talking to a guy for a couple weeks and its just now got to the point we have exchanged Yahoo info. I will not give up my number for awhile yet and he respects that. Im not sating hes dishonest, but I have to think of me and my child!
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to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.