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Jan 10, 2011 11:54 AM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.confused dunno grin
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Jan 10, 2011 11:56 AM CST New To This!
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.


I havent dated anyone from this site but that must be maddening..wave
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Jan 10, 2011 11:57 AM CST New To This!
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Hello and...cswelcome..... Great start .... thumbs up ...keep it up..... giggle wine
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Jan 10, 2011 11:57 AM CST New To This!
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
I don't respond to those that want any of that info right away....usually scammers......I take my time to get to know them before I give them any info at all.....usually getting to know them in the forums helps.....wink
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Jan 10, 2011 11:58 AM CST New To This!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
cswelcome and to the world of internet dating.Don't let it worry you,you will learn to laugh it off and just move on.Wait till they do show up and you ask who are you,laugh Just look at it as and adventure,meet in a public place,just for a drink of some sort,its easier to get away if there not the right one.wave
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Jan 10, 2011 12:01 PM CST New To This!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.


Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.

If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.

Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.

But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far). dunno
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Jan 10, 2011 12:05 PM CST New To This!
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.



I don't understand why anyone would do this, but you are better off without them, just forget em and hope the next one is honest,
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Jan 10, 2011 12:23 PM CST New To This!
silverman1981
silverman1981silverman1981tehran, Iran12 Threads 664 Posts
justbekind: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.


and so are some womenwine
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Jan 10, 2011 12:25 PM CST New To This!
silverman1981
silverman1981silverman1981tehran, Iran12 Threads 664 Posts
invinciblemuse: Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.

If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.

Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.

But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far).


none of that, she just gae me chocolate and seduced mecrying crying
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Jan 10, 2011 12:29 PM CST New To This!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
silverman1981: none of that, she just gae me chocolate and seduced me


comfort Oh dear, that sounds like a terrible date... uh oh
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Jan 10, 2011 12:34 PM CST New To This!
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
In response to: Does anyone agree, that some men are on here
to string along women and then move on, i have found that
some men will contact, and very soon after will want telephone number, then txt, then call, and finally make a date and dont turn up? and this person will say that he is honest.


hello..i m new here too!angel
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Jan 10, 2011 12:35 PM CST New To This!
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
i mean i m new in this threadblushing
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Jan 10, 2011 12:47 PM CST New To This!
Brit_singleagain
Brit_singleagainBrit_singleagainTell u if i like u, Ohio USA112 Posts
invinciblemuse: Hm, someone, who says in his first message that he hates liars and that he´s honest, is a red flag for me. If it were true, he wouldn´t feel the need to put so much emphasis on it.

If someone wants phone numbers or private email addresses, they have to exchange a good few emails with me here on CS first. Most give up at this stage.

Some continue, and their reward is eventually to be given my Skype ID. And only after a good few long chats on Skype I´m perhaps willing to meet up.

But hey, that´s just how I do it. It works for me, I´ve never been stood up (so far).



Thats how I do it too. I think any red flags will manifest in a few weeks. I been talking to a guy for a couple weeks and its just now got to the point we have exchanged Yahoo info. I will not give up my number for awhile yet and he respects that. Im not sating hes dishonest, but I have to think of me and my child!
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Jan 10, 2011 12:53 PM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
This is also true.handshake
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Jan 10, 2011 12:55 PM CST New To This!
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Brit_singleagain: Thats how I do it too. I think any red flags will manifest in a few weeks. I been talking to a guy for a couple weeks and its just now got to the point we have exchanged Yahoo info. I will not give up my number for awhile yet and he respects that. Im not sating hes dishonest, but I have to think of me and my child!


thumbs up Yep, gotta be safe!! bouquet teddybear
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Jan 10, 2011 12:58 PM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
Yes took my time, and seemed to get on well.
i will write it down to experience, and yes i have moved on.banana
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Jan 10, 2011 1:05 PM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
It is, very, just loose trust.
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Jan 10, 2011 1:07 PM CST New To This!
Mountain_Cat
Mountain_CatMountain_Catspringfield, Missouri USA25 Threads 420 Posts
RDM59: Hello and........ Great start .... ...keep it up.....
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 10, 2011 1:09 PM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
Thank you,Letting off some steam herewave wine
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Jan 10, 2011 1:11 PM CST New To This!
justbekind
justbekindjustbekindLimerick, Ireland1 Threads 68 Posts
We live and learngrin thumbs up
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