I'm a little confused any help appreciated (33)
ttwkidsHammond, Indiana USA1 Threads 12 PostsHi! I'm new to this online stuff and have been emailing with a very nice person for about a month now. I decided to give him my phone number and though we continue to email, he hasn't called. I would really like to talk to him and if anything would love to be this persons friend since we have alot in common. Any thoughts on how I should handle this? Thanks Toni 
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Welcome to the forums, Toni. I think you are doing the right thing now by posting. I hope you stick around for a while. It can get addicting, lol. Get a whole bunch of friends. One might let you down and one might go to sleep while you are still up.
Roy
Roy
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Thanks Roy 
Do you have any suggestions to my dillema?
Do you have any suggestions to my dillema?
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well i do. just be the bigger man(don't take that personally) and ask for their phone number.
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When you gave him your phone number did you give him a time to call?
Usually when a woman gives me a phone number I'll call here within minutes of receiving it. We are usually talking via emails (almost using them like IMing) just before the phone call anyway.
The only thing I would suggest is to ask him to call the next time you are emailing with him, or however you talk with him online.
Just say you'd rather talk live.
Best wishes!
Usually when a woman gives me a phone number I'll call here within minutes of receiving it. We are usually talking via emails (almost using them like IMing) just before the phone call anyway.
The only thing I would suggest is to ask him to call the next time you are emailing with him, or however you talk with him online.
Just say you'd rather talk live.
Best wishes!
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Keep the email up and ask him why he doesn't call.
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also could you check out my thread and help me out. its kind of important.
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Probably wont call because he dont want you to have his number , for what ever reason.
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Yes, ask for his phone number too!
If he refuses to give it out that's a really bad sign that he's afraid someone else might accidently answer the phone for him!
If he refuses to give it out that's a really bad sign that he's afraid someone else might accidently answer the phone for him!
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Patience is a virtue.. possess it if you can, seldom in woman and never in man.
That being said, if he hasn't called - give it time. Time will sort out everything, one way or the other. If he didn't ask for your number, he may be a bit bashful just the same. Asking for his number is a bit forward, but may work just the same if he really is bashful. Go with what -you- feel is right, it's your friendship/relationship and no one else really gets a vote in it.
My .02
That being said, if he hasn't called - give it time. Time will sort out everything, one way or the other. If he didn't ask for your number, he may be a bit bashful just the same. Asking for his number is a bit forward, but may work just the same if he really is bashful. Go with what -you- feel is right, it's your friendship/relationship and no one else really gets a vote in it.
My .02
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Actually, ususally when I talk to a woman on the phone for the first time I give her my number and she calls me.
That's just the way it's always worked out for me in the past. I have no set rules.
That's just the way it's always worked out for me in the past. I have no set rules.
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maybe he is just scared men get that way as well you never know just ask for his number maybe that would be better hope it all goes well tho
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