A question to those who were adopted (6)
hello there. I was adopted at the age of 2 wks. and i have no desire to find out who my biological parents are. I always said that if i were to ever look i would waituntil by adoptive parents were no longer around. They were good parents to me and i would never hurt them. Luckily they are still around so it hasn't become an issue. They health thing would be good to find out, but since i am old now that isn't and issue either. Take care.
Yes, I was adopted and yes as an adult I met my biological family -- well mother and siblings.
Great experience and we're all "family" now. My mothers like and respect each other, and I am amazed at how different our childhoods were..... And I feel so fortuante to have so much love in my life.
Great experience and we're all "family" now. My mothers like and respect each other, and I am amazed at how different our childhoods were..... And I feel so fortuante to have so much love in my life.
That's good to hear. Glad it all worked out for you!
I have 2 friends who met their bio-parents and they were also happy with the outcome.. so it does make me wonder if I'd have the same success. So who knows, maybe someday I will look up bio-mom, I would certainly like to learn more about Hungarian & Romanian culture and how well I'd fit in with "my own kind" lol.
I have 2 friends who met their bio-parents and they were also happy with the outcome.. so it does make me wonder if I'd have the same success. So who knows, maybe someday I will look up bio-mom, I would certainly like to learn more about Hungarian & Romanian culture and how well I'd fit in with "my own kind" lol.
My answer would be that same as yours.....ou were given up for a good reason....So why stir the pot....the only reason i would want to know would be for medical reasons......
I was adopted at 3 years of age my grandparents raised me before then and I have little interest in meeting or knowing my biological parents although I have met and spend time with other members of my biological family in fact a large chunk of them live in vancouver so I spend holidays with them over my foster fam. So I guess it's all a matter of situation and wether you had an open or closed adoption.
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Do you want to meet your biological family?
My answer to this question is: no.
However, it would still be nice to know what sort of ailments run in my biological family and if I have a high risk of developing these illnesses in the future.
(sub-question - if you are adopted and have met your biological family, and don't mind sharing your experiences here, how did it go for you?)