Appearances, people,or LOVE?? ( Archived) (6)

Jul 18, 2005 12:49 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
Independent_1
Independent_1Independent_1maple ridge, British Columbia Canada2 Threads 2 Posts
why is it that so many men/women today find it necessary to meet a perfect person instead of a good person? I am finding that people seem to be more into appearances rather than heart (my self included at times). Is it just me? Maybe the reason we can't find love is because we never let it meet our expectations. If there is anyone out there who agrees or opposes this please let me know......
I don't get it.
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Jul 18, 2005 1:05 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
suzi12
suzi12suzi12saskatoon, Canada2 Posts
i totally agree. and i find it quite sickening(i am too a victim of this) like why are apperances(sp) important any ways? why do ppl put so much stress on there own physical attributes and otherS? what happened to liking someone just for who they are?
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Jul 18, 2005 5:35 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
thevisionary
thevisionarythevisionaryGarner, North Carolina USA20 Threads 460 Posts
I totally agree with your statement! I think it has been and always will be human nature to be more attracted to beauty rather than personality. I for one try to look at a persons inner side before I look to the outside. I’ve always said that I would much rather be around people that exude a great personality than beauty. But if beauty also has a great personality than even better yet.

Bill
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Jul 18, 2005 8:43 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
flthrottle
flthrottleflthrottleindependence, Kentucky USA22 Threads 532 Posts
i agree to..it's human nature..even animals use colors and dances and various other things to use looks to atract mates.. humans are not much diferent.. we have to have an atraction to become interested in more than what meets the eye.. there are exceptions to every rule.but usualy this is just how it works.. guess it's good that every one has their own idea of what looks good to them.. means we all have a chance no matter what we look like ;-)
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Jul 18, 2005 8:50 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
migivadamsbusted
migivadamsbustedmigivadamsbustedhoward cnty, USA15 Threads 1,542 Posts
there has to be an attraction of somekind, part of who we are. but most importantly is what on the inside, who and what they are is what matters most to me.
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Jul 18, 2005 8:54 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
tallmanindallas
tallmanindallastallmanindallasRichardson, Texas USA18 Threads 294 Posts
Yes its like whats deep in your heart is what I look for
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