Jul 18, 2005 12:49 AM CST Appearances, people,or LOVE??
Independent_1maple ridge, British Columbia Canada2 Threads2 Posts
Independent_1OPmaple ridge, British Columbia Canada2 posts
why is it that so many men/women today find it necessary to meet a perfect person instead of a good person? I am finding that people seem to be more into appearances rather than heart (my self included at times). Is it just me? Maybe the reason we can't find love is because we never let it meet our expectations. If there is anyone out there who agrees or opposes this please let me know...... I don't get it.
i totally agree. and i find it quite sickening(i am too a victim of this) like why are apperances(sp) important any ways? why do ppl put so much stress on there own physical attributes and otherS? what happened to liking someone just for who they are?
I totally agree with your statement! I think it has been and always will be human nature to be more attracted to beauty rather than personality. I for one try to look at a persons inner side before I look to the outside. I’ve always said that I would much rather be around people that exude a great personality than beauty. But if beauty also has a great personality than even better yet.
i agree to..it's human nature..even animals use colors and dances and various other things to use looks to atract mates.. humans are not much diferent.. we have to have an atraction to become interested in more than what meets the eye.. there are exceptions to every rule.but usualy this is just how it works.. guess it's good that every one has their own idea of what looks good to them.. means we all have a chance no matter what we look like ;-)
there has to be an attraction of somekind, part of who we are. but most importantly is what on the inside, who and what they are is what matters most to me.
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I don't get it.