HotrodLarrys: Hi nevica, She was refering to a player as one who YES plays with emotions of others, with no Good intentions in Mind, Telling you a long sad story for wrong reasons, Basically One who plays You as a fool, for selfish gain, Tells You how Beautiful you are, mainly to get Laid, then they are with Your friend the next week. While You sit in a pond of Tears....
oh, I have heard of those but never seen them, so I don't believe in them. I think in most of the times people call someone a player when he really wanted something too but it didn't work and the other part just dismisses him as a player as a comfort, (he was bad from the start) i have seen it in forums. i also read about those who just want to get laid and play with a woman's emotions. Why? Do they want it just once? if they theat a woman good they may have it many times.
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
nevica: oh, I have heard of those but never seen them, so I don't believe in them. I think in most of the times people call someone a player when he really wanted something too but it didn't work and the other part just dismisses him as a player as a comfort, (he was bad from the start) i have seen it in forums. i also read about those who just want to get laid and play with a woman's emotions. Why? Do they want it just once? if they theat a woman good they may have it many times.
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well,, I have to admit that you are actually right, Nev... I've been called a player as well, I didnt do nothing, they just never get what they want from me and they call me player..
I think that "playing" is part of growing up and getting to know about yourself and who you can attract and keep. Sometimes we revisit that behavior over time if we have to reassess what we can attract now due to the aging process etc. Sometimes we do not even realize that we are doing it when it is in its mildest forum,re flirting.
ColonelBogey: I think that "playing" is part of growing up and getting to know about yourself and who you can attract and keep. Sometimes we revisit that behavior over time if we have to reassess what we can attract now due to the aging process etc. Sometimes we do not even realize that we are doing it when it is in its mildest forum,re flirting.
I thank the lawd that the aged scottyburd is past all that malarkey...
scottyburd: I thank the lawd that the aged scottyburd is past all that malarkey...
I have thought that I am past that too.Like when I was married.Then I had to learn about myself over again after we separated then a few times after. But playing takes many forums. There is a difference between flirting with many at the same time that arranging dates with a number secretly,or even dating a number secretly. I always only ever arranged to meet one person at a time even when I did flirt with a few,and once I had made a dating arrangement I acted appropriately with others until that date had passed without any romantic involvement. But I was still labeled as a player due to women "chatting".
ColonelBogey: I have thought that I am past that too.Like when I was married.Then I had to learn about myself over again after we separated then a few times after. But playing takes many forums. There is a difference between flirting with many at the same time that arranging dates with a number secretly,or even dating a number secretly. I always only ever arranged to meet one person at a time even when I did flirt with a few,and once I had made a dating arrangement I acted appropriately with others until that date had passed without any romantic involvement. But I was still labeled as a player due to women "chatting".
I fully understand what you are saying Col..i guess thats what you get for being a handsome dude...(jeez am i flirting)
scottyburd: I fully understand what you are saying Col..i guess thats what you get for being a handsome dude...(jeez am i flirting)
Well I did ask them all for a quicky quite often while pissed after getting home without scoring down town! The most that I ever got in reply was my lewd pics posted on a gay website.
Colleene1024West Warwick, Rhode Island USA1,225 posts
ColonelBogey: Well I did ask them all for a quicky quite often while pissed after getting home without scoring down town! The most that I ever got in reply was my lewd pics posted on a gay website.
ColonelBogey: Well I did ask them all for a quicky quite often while pissed after getting home without scoring down town! The most that I ever got in reply was my lewd pics posted on a gay website.
Well..you win some you lose some....remember god loves a trier...its good to know you havent lost your sense of humour..you know Col its a funny old life..im a happy burd..but...folks seem to have a problem with that...
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
ColonelBogey: Well I did ask them all for a quicky quite often while pissed after getting home without scoring down town! The most that I ever got in reply was my lewd pics posted on a gay website.
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
ColonelBogey: Well I did ask them all for a quicky quite often while pissed after getting home without scoring down town! The most that I ever got in reply was my lewd pics posted on a gay website.
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