ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
There are this funny guys.. really they are too funny.. They mailed me often. I replied 2 or 3 times at that time.. I havent reply their mails recently, I am now in a relationship and they mailed me they told me I'm playing with them???? god! I never told them I'm interested.. I SWEAR. I was just being nice.. so.. is that mean that if we reply a message, it means that we're interested??? Okay! I won't reply any mails ever again starting from now.. I will reply only mails from my friends here..
carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
ScarlettLipstick: There are this funny guys.. really they are too funny.. They mailed me often. I replied 2 or 3 times at that time.. I havent reply their mails recently, I am now in a relationship and they mailed me they told me I'm playing with them???? god! I never told them I'm interested.. I SWEAR. I was just being nice.. so.. is that mean that if we reply a message, it means that we're interested??? Okay! I won't reply any mails ever again starting from now.. I will reply only mails from my friends here..
you got a hot looking boyfriend now baby....
who cares?
just delete the messages and be a happy bunny with your gorgeous looking man.
Harsh I think it is nice to reply even if your not interested. If your not your not interested then say so but you should still be able to talk to whome ever you like.
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
Jusso: Harsh I think it is nice to reply even if your not interested. If your not your not interested then say so but you should still be able to talk to whome ever you like.
The thing is, they never really ask about how I feel?? some even only offering friendship.. and when they know I'm in a relationship and I don't reply their mail, they thank me for playing with them... that's so unfair.. I never told them I'm interested either.. They mailed me, they're being nice, and I did too..
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Jusso: Harsh I think it is nice to reply even if your not interested. If your not your not interested then say so but you should still be able to talk to whome ever you like.
Harsh? A woman can go to extraordinary lengths to make it clear that she's not interested and men still mail getting hopeful, or angry that things aren't going their way.
Don't you think it would be nice if men respected women's wishes?
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
jac379: Harsh? A woman can go to extraordinary lengths to make it clear that she's not interested and men still mail getting hopeful, or angry that things aren't going their way.
Don't you think it would be nice if men respected women's wishes?
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
Hi hun, I always make a man who doesnt know me that mails me that im not looking but its nice to meet them. I think it saves on all the awkward chatting up lines on their part....and it tells them straight from the start..
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
Amity: Hi hun, I always make a man who doesnt know me that mails me that im not looking but its nice to meet them. I think it saves on all the awkward chatting up lines on their part....and it tells them straight from the start..
maybe that's what I should do from the start.. I'll remember that, thanks Amy..!!
jac379: Harsh? A woman can go to extraordinary lengths to make it clear that she's not interested and men still mail getting hopeful, or angry that things aren't going their way.
Don't you think it would be nice if men respected women's wishes?
Its always nice.......especially when they agree with ours
ScarlettLipstick: The thing is, they never really ask about how I feel?? some even only offering friendship.. and when they know I'm in a relationship and I don't reply their mail, they thank me for playing with them... that's so unfair.. I never told them I'm interested either.. They mailed me, they're being nice, and I did too..
I don't think you have done anything wrong. People get slated for replying or not replying so your damned if you do and damned if you don't.
ScarlettLipstick: There are this funny guys.. really they are too funny.. They mailed me often. I replied 2 or 3 times at that time.. I havent reply their mails recently, I am now in a relationship and they mailed me they told me I'm playing with them???? god! I never told them I'm interested.. I SWEAR. I was just being nice.. so.. is that mean that if we reply a message, it means that we're interested??? Okay! I won't reply any mails ever again starting from now.. I will reply only mails from my friends here..
hmmmm.did u really play with them? :)))
babe,dont mind anybody,if u r not interested,then dont replay.otherwise they'll think that u r interested.or if u r interested talking to them as a friends just tell them that u r in love with someone else.so they shud not get a wrong idea.
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
Rumyet: hmmmm.did u really play with them? :)))
babe,dont mind anybody,if u r not interested,then dont replay.otherwise they'll think that u r interested.or if u r interested talking to them as a friends just tell them that u r in love with someone else.so they shud not get a wrong idea.
I was kinda stated that clear when I replied.. I told them, "I don't mind making new friends"
Gosh Rummy, I flirt with you and you never got me wrong.. why did they get me wrong?
ScarlettLipstickOPdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
vinny1967: I don't think you have done anything wrong. People get slated for replying or not replying so your damned if you do and damned if you don't.
Soon we'll be married.. and raise a family. In a cozy, little home out in the country with two children, maybe 317. I tell you, I can visualize it all. This couldn't be a dream for too real it all seems. But it was just my imagination -- once again -- running away with me. I tell you it was just my imagination running away with me...
Problem is and take it from a guy, if you reply then most guys will take that as a meaning that your interested. All us men are idiots when it comes to women, we think that all women love us and if they smile at us walking down the street we have a chance. Then the men that say different are the ones trying the nice guy approach. 99% of men want one thing the other 1% are lying.
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