Up until five years ago I was able to trust and did to my emotional and financial detriment.
Now that I know I can't let anyone into my life again I am enjoying my freedom. I don't have to have dinner on the table at a certain time, I can sleep in if I want to, go around the house in my jammies if I want to and blessedly, if I'm not going out of the house, I don't have to wear makeup. Simply put, I do enjoy not having to answer to anyone. I don't have to worry about invading his space and I don't have to say anymore "we need to talk". The only thing that is a fear is that I will die alone without a comforting hand. I liked being in love but the price is too high and so I take the easy way out.
Snuggs09: Up until five years ago I was able to trust and did to my emotional and financial detriment.
Now that I know I can't let anyone into my life again I am enjoying my freedom. I don't have to have dinner on the table at a certain time, I can sleep in if I want to, go around the house in my jammies if I want to and blessedly, if I'm not going out of the house, I don't have to wear makeup. Simply put, I do enjoy not having to answer to anyone. I don't have to worry about invading his space and I don't have to say anymore "we need to talk". The only thing that is a fear is that I will die alone without a comforting hand. I liked being in love but the price is too high and so I take the easy way out.
Sunshine, don't you think that if I feel this way it's better that I don't get into anybody elses life.
You can't love if you don't start with trust.
I know that underneath all my rant I'm still a lovable, loyal and generous woman but I have to keep from myself from getting into situations that might temp me from falling in love again.
Snuggs09: Sunshine, don't you think that if I feel this way it's better that I don't get into anybody elses life.
You can't love if you don't start with trust.
I know that underneath all my rant I'm still a lovable, loyal and generous woman but I have to keep from myself from getting into situations that might temp me from falling in love again.
I'm sure you are absolutely lovely. When you ask me "don't you think?" my first thought is that it just isn't for me to say how I think you or anyone else should carry on with your private life. I can tell you've been hurt by some a**hole and I hope that someone who is completely the opposite comes along to help you change your mind and love you as you deserve.
SUNSHINEB0Y: I'm sure you are absolutely lovely. When you ask me "don't you think?" my first thought is that it just isn't for me to say how I think you or anyone else should carry on with your private life. I can tell you've been hurt by some a**hole and I hope that someone who is completely the opposite comes along to help you change your mind and love you as you deserve.
SUNSHINEB0Y: I'm sure you are absolutely lovely. When you ask me "don't you think?" my first thought is that it just isn't for me to say how I think you or anyone else should carry on with your private life. I can tell you've been hurt by some a**hole and I hope that someone who is completely the opposite comes along to help you change your mind and love you as you deserve.
You bring tears to my eyes. What a lovely thing to say to me.
Funny how the little things in life can make me smile.
Snuggs09: He has no idea how much he puffed up my chest..
I'm now 42DDD and still going.....
Rightly so Snuggs..someone will come along and knock that wall down...before you say..wait a minute.. Since ive hit the menopause..my chest is getting chestier too...its not fair..i used to like looking at my wee feet..
scottyburd: Rightly so Snuggs..someone will come along and knock that wall down...before you say..wait a minute.. Since ive hit the menopause..my chest is getting chestier too...its not fair..i used to like looking at my wee feet..
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Haaa 6 pages to get to my first thought