carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
NoRewind: Hey carenza, I am hurt, you and I have a relationshipI had planned to say hi to you tonight and I am planning in the future to say hi to you again
well,
in this case it's easy.
we have a special relationship...so keep coming back for more saying hello's....
carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
NoRewind: for a moment I thought all was lost mien schatz, now I can continue our future for tomorrow and say hi again, all this planning stuff is hard work
let's expand our relationship a bit by adding a few words...
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
I always chose the slow way with internet getting close to someone. If he is not patient enough, I don't care. I had someone with whom I wanted to meet, but before that I wanted to him to explain some of his previous relationships he had told me about. He couldn't. So, I didn't want to continue our contact. If he is not clever enough to know why is he doing things and is not ready to give me a logical explanation - there must be something wrong with him. No matter how good looking or nicely talking he might be. And, besides, I don't believe much in the so-called chemistry. My main chemistry is my mind and logic. If that says to me that a guy is OK, I will go further with him towards developing our relationship.
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
vyoleta: I always chose the slow way with internet getting close to someone. If he is not patient enough, I don't care. I had someone with whom I wanted to meet, but before that I wanted to him to explain some of his previous relationships he had told me about. He couldn't. So, I didn't want to continue our contact. If he is not clever enough to know why is he doing things and is not ready to give me a logical explanation - there must be something wrong with him. No matter how good looking or nicely talking he might be. And, besides, I don't believe much in the so-called chemistry. My main chemistry is my mind and logic. If that says to me that a guy is OK, I will go further with him towards developing our relationship.
vyoleta: I always chose the slow way with internet getting close to someone. If he is not patient enough, I don't care. I had someone with whom I wanted to meet, but before that I wanted to him to explain some of his previous relationships he had told me about. He couldn't. So, I didn't want to continue our contact. If he is not clever enough to know why is he doing things and is not ready to give me a logical explanation - there must be something wrong with him. No matter how good looking or nicely talking he might be. And, besides, I don't believe much in the so-called chemistry. My main chemistry is my mind and logic. If that says to me that a guy is OK, I will go further with him towards developing our relationship.
I think too many people have an unrealistic narrow definition of chemistry... and of how immediate it should be.
PandoraX: How many of you have had someone you just met on CS immediately start talking about planning a future together? I'm talking about someone you haven't talked with more than very briefly...
Please share your stories. (If it happened outside CS, I'd love to hear those stories too.)
Yes!!!! it happened to me just this "mother's day weekend...He emails me on saturday morning, say hello...then come sunday/mother's day..another email and asks if we can talk on the phone..I said ok...then he called me sunday afternoon just to asked me about how's my mother's day went...Then, he offer to come see me, and gave me a bouquet of flowers, then went out to eat. monday he called me again if I can spend the night with him...( I mean not to the extent)...now we are connecting... Oh! he is not on CS...
Just because I ask all the female members here to marry me, doesn`t make me a weirdo...
Boban,
just what is your Success rate ? I had a buddy once that used to ask gals for a B/J he got a BUNCH ! got slapped a FEW times also ! but he got a B U N C H !
I had one guy on a first date, try to give me a mercedes, make plans to meet his mother, make plans for a big get to know me with his whole family and make all kinds of plans for our future
venusenvy: I had one guy on a first date, try to give me a mercedes, make plans to meet his mother, make plans for a big get to know me with his whole family and make all kinds of plans for our future
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well,
in this case it's easy.
we have a special relationship...so keep coming back for more saying hello's....