Asking people out (38)

May 31, 2011 4:17 AM CST Asking people out
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
Just would like some feed back or advice please I've been let down in the past quite badly with a few not so good relationships but I'm finding that my confidence is knocked a bit.

The reason why i suppose I'm doing this thread is to find out does rejection affect people confidence I'm just taking way to long to get to know people before i ask girls out on a date,sometimes i usually wait till a month or two is this been to old fashioned.What are your view on this?
May 31, 2011 4:26 AM CST Asking people out
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
biggles90000: I think i'm just taking a while to get back on track i wonder do we get wiser as we get older.


Nope..help
May 31, 2011 4:30 AM CST Asking people out
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
sugar77: Nope..


thumbs up
ya wud think so but nope
May 31, 2011 4:30 AM CST Asking people out
Sam_131
Sam_131Sam_131Dublin, Ireland5 Threads 2 Polls 1,223 Posts
biggles90000: Just would like some feed back or advice please I've been let down in the past quite badly with a few not so good relationships but I'm finding that my confidence is knocked a bit.

The reason why i suppose I'm doing this thread is to find out does rejection affect people confidence I'm just taking way to long to get to know people before i ask girls out on a date,sometimes i usually wait till a month or two is this been to old fashioned.What are your view on this?


I have alot of confidence thumbs up
But that's because i never put myself out there to be rejected... and that's probably why i'm singleuh oh

Anyway, the worst thing that can happen is a person says no, we can't all spend our lives worrying if people will like us or notthumbs down

I should probably take my own advicelaugh
May 31, 2011 4:31 AM CST Asking people out
crazylady33
crazylady33crazylady33dublin, Dublin Ireland16 Threads 366 Posts
I dont think rejection could b as bad as wot me n my sis went thru de other nite thumbs down
May 31, 2011 4:32 AM CST Asking people out
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
biggles90000: Just would like some feed back or advice please I've been let down in the past quite badly with a few not so good relationships but I'm finding that my confidence is knocked a bit.

The reason why i suppose I'm doing this thread is to find out does rejection affect people confidence I'm just taking way to long to get to know people before i ask girls out on a date,sometimes i usually wait till a month or two is this been to old fashioned.What are your view on this?
if someone rejects you bud then you will have to accept that any possible future with that person is doomed, but dust yourself down and consider it experience of life
May 31, 2011 4:35 AM CST Asking people out
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
crazylady33: I dont think rejection could b as bad as wot me n my sis went thru de other nite



hope ur ok teddybear
May 31, 2011 4:36 AM CST Asking people out
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
SereneGreen: How does a woman know if a male friend fancies her then


Check for a lump or a damp patch in his trousers!laugh
May 31, 2011 4:37 AM CST Asking people out
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
SereneGreen: How does a woman know if a male friend fancies her then
He'll have a heartbeatgrin
May 31, 2011 4:37 AM CST Asking people out
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
Godsgift: Check for a lump or a damp patch in his trousers!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 31, 2011 4:38 AM CST Asking people out
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
Sam_131: I have alot of confidence
But that's because i never put myself out there to be rejected... and that's probably why i'm single

Anyway, the worst thing that can happen is a person says no, we can't all spend our lives worrying if people will like us or not

I should probably take my own advice


But you find the lack of trust is holding you back from meeting people.
May 31, 2011 4:38 AM CST Asking people out
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
anniebaby: I'll have u know im a lovely nut
I don't doubt it... It's just we us totally different parts of the brain when processing the same info.... that makes us very different.
May 31, 2011 4:39 AM CST Asking people out
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
Godsgift: Check for a lump or a damp patch in his trousers!


Whats that called ive forgotten rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 31, 2011 4:40 AM CST Asking people out
SereneGreen
SereneGreenSereneGreenWexford, Ireland190 Threads 5 Polls 2,899 Posts
blarneykite: He'll have a heartbeat
Right are we to believe every male friend we woman have fancies us.......not likely scold
May 31, 2011 4:40 AM CST Asking people out
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
blarneykite: I don't doubt it... It's just we us totally different parts of the brain when processing the same info.... that makes us very different.


well for some unknown reason nearly everyone tells me i think like a man

wish someone cud explain to me how or why but there u go

told ya lovely nut laugh
May 31, 2011 4:41 AM CST Asking people out
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
SereneGreen: How does a woman know if a male friend fancies her then
I worked with my best mate for ten years... I fancied the asre off her, but kept it quiet.. she was married... Turned out she felt the same..... Generally(regardless of what they say) when a man and woman hab=ng out together alot... there's something there.. whether either of you admit it or not
May 31, 2011 4:41 AM CST Asking people out
crazylady33
crazylady33crazylady33dublin, Dublin Ireland16 Threads 366 Posts
sugar77: What happened.. Great to meet you and your sis...had a good boogie with ya..


Yeh u too thumbs up
We met a fella after we left and things just went from bad to worse
May 31, 2011 4:42 AM CST Asking people out
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
SereneGreen: Right are we to believe every male friend we woman have fancies us.......not likely
Of course not ... some will be gayrolling on the floor laughing
May 31, 2011 4:42 AM CST Asking people out
crazylady33
crazylady33crazylady33dublin, Dublin Ireland16 Threads 366 Posts
anniebaby: ya some weird and not so wonderful peeps out there

as long as ur ok dont let it get to u wot ever happened


Bit hard to
but wot dosent kill us will only make us stronger
May 31, 2011 4:43 AM CST Asking people out
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
crazylady33: Bit hard to
but wot dosent kill us will only make us stronger


god sounds bad
sorry to hear u had a bad experience and again hope ur ok
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