carenza: what if you find out your new lover is really involved in a relationship and didn't tell you about it.
that makes you the homewrecker, the other woman in most peoples opinion.
but what if you didn't know it and really love the man to bits.
would you give up on that relationship? or stay in it and accept that you have to share him? would you befriend his partner?
what would be the right thing for you?
To knowingly continue to be in a relationship with a deceiptful person? I think it comes down to believing in yourself to realize that you deserve more. Yes, the heart may hurt, but it will heal.
carenza: what if you find out your new lover is really involved in a relationship and didn't tell you about it.
that makes you the homewrecker, the other woman in most peoples opinion.
but what if you didn't know it and really love the man to bits.
would you give up on that relationship? or stay in it and accept that you have to share him? would you befriend his partner?
what would be the right thing for you?
If a guy LIES to you and then he already has someone he's not leaving that means that he's never gonna get serious with you unless she kicks him out and he does not have someone hotter or richer to go to. So then you have to ask yourself if it is worth dating a liar who treats women badly.
its not really you breaking your own heart tho..its his lies and deception,a reletionship needs trust to survive and I couldnt trust anyone who put me in that situation..I`d punch his lights oot..
boomboom_uk: its not really you breaking your own heart tho..its his lies and deception,a reletionship needs trust to survive and I couldnt trust anyone who put me in that situation..I`d punch his lights oot..
Witchaywoman: If a guy LIES to you and then he already has someone he's not leaving that means that he's never gonna get serious with you unless she kicks him out and he does not have someone hotter or richer to go to. So then you have to ask yourself if it is worth dating a liar who treats women badly.
boomboom_uk: its not really you breaking your own heart tho..its his lies and deception,a reletionship needs trust to survive and I couldnt trust anyone who put me in that situation..I`d punch his lights oot..
cant keep the relationship if one of them is keep lying.
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Any love I felt for such a man upon hearing that he is a lying,cheating scumbag would immediately dissapear.I would never speak to him again and leave his girlfriend/wife a discreet message about what her man has been up too.
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that makes you the homewrecker, the other woman in most peoples opinion.
but what if you didn't know it and really love the man to bits.
would you give up on that relationship? or stay in it and accept that you have to share him? would you befriend his partner?
what would be the right thing for you?