Awkward Exs (25)

Jun 24, 2011 10:12 AM CST Awkward Exs
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
ardera: I have no experience of what your going through so my view point may not be valid but I think now is the time in your sons life to build a relationship with you. Otherwise when he gets older he may have a chip on his shoulder and "dis-own" you altogether. After all, all the information he is getting about his father is from his mother!!! You seem to be a well, ...fairly... you seem to be a balanced person, so what is she worried about?? (apart from getting back at you for something)

How is your relationship with her parents (and her's with your parents) Can they do anything to convince her? Citizens advise seems to be the correct option before taking it further.

Rest assured, there will come a day when she will have to ask you to take him. Hope this works out for you.



cheer thanks mate i dont get on well with her dad but get on great with her mam brothers and sisters always have done.
Jun 24, 2011 10:13 AM CST Awkward Exs
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
Taureanmale: Tried to pm ya this . Isnt it leitrim . .if ur near carrick there s an indoor avdenture centre across from supermacs and lidl . .and over mulveys toyshop in at the back . . .well there used be one . .could you suggest the 3 of you go in and he might go with you on activities


yea its leitrim mate he lives 20 mins on the farside of carrick.i will ask now the nextime im up to take him out for an hour and she what she says.
Jun 24, 2011 10:25 AM CST Awkward Exs
Taureanmale
TaureanmaleTaureanmaleRoscommon, Ireland86 Threads 5 Polls 1,672 Posts
biggles90000: yea its leitrim mate he lives 20 mins on the farside of carrick.i will ask now the nextime im up to take him out for an hour and she what she says.


Maybe baby steps first . . . I take a wee one a fair bit away too and she s still missed . . Try the 3 of ye going first . .didnt you say he says he s bored elsewhere on a thread. .let her see this is just you dealing with that
Jun 24, 2011 11:34 AM CST Awkward Exs
TwinkleStar_70
TwinkleStar_70TwinkleStar_70Near carloe, Carlow Ireland14 Threads 2 Polls 1,230 Posts
best go to court, to have him at weekend, it's seem she doesn't trust you with ya son on ya own.
be nice he could come down ya way hug
my ex in UK had 2 daughters, had same problem, he was living with me, but he wasn't allow to take them out, only to my house for 2 hrs every 2nd week, he love to take them to there granny and his family ect, toward the end, he went to court, he got them every Wed for Girl guild, and every weekend, and could take them out to park and visit there granny in Midland. thumbs up
Jun 24, 2011 11:53 AM CST Awkward Exs
shaunagh
shaunaghshaunaghcork, Cork Ireland3 Threads 52 Posts
biggles90000: cheer thanks mate i dont get on well with her dad but get on great with her mam brothers and sisters always have done.


Hiya Kevin.

Maybe you could discuss your situation with her mum on the quiet as you get on so well with her?

She obviously knows her daughter v well and the situation.

you can gently ask her for advice but firmly insist you need some private time with your flesh and blood.

Maybe it could be worth a try?

Her mum might be able to act as mediator and open her daughter eyes also to your plight.

Every good wish is sent your way.

Happy friday.x
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