Hi Venus, you are funny. I saw crash and burn, car wreck situation. It's not over until everything is said and done. Carenza, you did well in self defense, walk on!
Carenza, it is also good to think of the other person in the ending relationship. How she would feel if she found out that even though the relationship was not over completely, he was moving on. It would be painful on her and he is to blame. I believe in closure. He is not there yet and IMHO, should not be going after other women until his job is done. I am not surprised you walked away, that is what I would think you would do, so I'm happy that you did in my eyes the right thing.
doberman3: Carenza, it is also good to think of the other person in the ending relationship. How she would feel if she found out that even though the relationship was not over completely, he was moving on. It would be painful on her and he is to blame. I believe in closure. He is not there yet and IMHO, should not be going after other women until his job is done. I am not surprised you walked away, that is what I would think you would do, so I'm happy that you did in my eyes the right thing.
The Dobe
It appears you are, for sake of discussion, raising what ifs so I’ll play along. What if after nearly a year of asking her where they were headed the guy finally got fed up with the response of I don’t know I can’t even figure myself out? What if she wasn’t providing the necessary signals to even maintain a supposed friendship? What if she was moving on as well without letting him know of her plans? What if after both living a lie for some time neither were able to be honest with each other? Of course you’re part of the cheated on club so it couldn’t possibly be anyone other than the guy to blame. Nope, there could be no other reasons to make contact other than to go after women.
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Hi Venus, you are funny. I saw crash and burn, car wreck situation.
It's not over until everything is said and done.
Carenza, you did well in self defense, walk on!
The Dobe