islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
In response to: Have you raised kids and gotten that far w/o killing them? To teen age??
What is a memory you can share that can show us that it was all worth it
What about a memory of a day that made you think one of you would not survive it?
It is HARD
I thought long a hard about this - "teenagers are worth it" - depending which scale they are at - early 13 or or late 18-19 14 -17 buy a straight jacket, you are in for a rocky road - they strut their stuff, they are rude and ignorant but they are still "minors" they still have to have boundaries, and rules, but you must also be flexible - COMMUNICATION is the key - understanding what kind of peer pressure they have... negiotate.... yes we were all teenagers once, but if they knew right from wrong, are comfortable in their own skin, they DO grow up to be solid responsible citizens, than any parent would be proud to say "that's my child"
islandgirl62: I thought long a hard about this - "teenagers are worth it" - depending which scale they are at - early 13 or or late 18-19 14 -17 buy a straight jacket, you are in for a rocky road - they strut their stuff, they are rude and ignorant but they are still "minors" they still have to have boundaries, and rules, but you must also be flexible - COMMUNICATION is the key - understanding what kind of peer pressure they have... negiotate.... yes we were all teenagers once, but if they knew right from wrong, are comfortable in their own skin, they DO grow up to be solid responsible citizens, than any parent would be proud to say "that's my child"
forgot to add, that whenever I take the girls out to dinner, visit with friends, family or maybe just out shopping, they are well-mannered, polite, and courteous to others.
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